How many serious relationships did you have before meeting your FH?
I had one that I'd call serious. We were together for about 3 years, but had the usual break-ups/make-ups that college kids go through. I learned a lot from that relationship...especially how to handle arguments and what I DON'T want in a person.
The other few were just flings.
And one guy went gay.
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soontobecruz
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I guess like 2 or 3.... IDK what to call serious anymore bc since I have been with FH, I would say this is the ONLY serious relationship I've been in.
The other's were all lies, and on again, off again... kind of relationships.
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How many serious relationships did you have before meeting your FH?
I had one that I'd call serious. We were together for about 3 years, but had the usual break-ups/make-ups that college kids go through. I learned a lot from that relationship...especially how to handle arguments and what I DON'T want in a person.
The other few were just flings.
And one guy went gay.
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None... i was 20 when we started dating... i had one 'relationship' when i was 15... but it was for like 6 months and we both cheated on each other, and barely spoke to each other... he coaches my cousins hockey team now, and i see him on the train in the morning... we were always too good of friends, i dont know why we ever dated in the first place... lol
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none. i was 16 & FH was 17 when we started dating. he was my first boyfriend, i was his first girlfriend.
CaseyNTim
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I had one other serious relationship, well two maybe.
Me and FH broke up when we went away to college to kind of find ourselves but it was useless every break we had when we both came home we would hang out and we were still so in love.
I had one boyfriend freshman year of college, and he was just absolutely crazy, made me appreciate my relationship with now FH so much more because he was so understanding and just so normal.
The last relationship before I got back with FH was with a guy for abour two years. He was okay, but he always made me feel like sh!t for dating one of his friends first (He kept saying he would get over it and never did) then he ended up dating the girl that I thought that he liked all along (while we were dating). So I mean although it was serious, it stunk. haha
had to edit to put in actual words you are allowed to use on LIW lol
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2.
My first one lasted a year and a half, and the other lasted a 2 1/2 years.
Now I'm with FH for almost 10 years!!!!
JAAMS
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no 'serious' one, just silly little things
Rosie0613
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I had 1 serious relationship and we lasted for 3 years. I learned alot from that relationship also. Especially about myself and what I wanted from life. All the others weren't serious at all.
MrsC2010
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none....i dated a bunch of guys before but nothing serious. I was 19 when i started dating FH and we were each others first serious relationships.
asg450
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well FH and I met when I was 17. I had a somewhat serious boyfriend before him but looking back now, it was not a serious relationship. It was just puppy love and he was a jerk.
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2 other relationships.
1 started when I was.... 18 and was about 2 years on and off. This is the guy said, 'On the real, i'm happy for you.'
Another when I was 21 for about 3 yrs on and off (mostly off but I cheated A LOT!). This guy is now engaged to someone like.. 15 yrs older then him and has told me, 'She's a starter wife.. I really wish things turned out differently b/t you and me. But I believe we're gonna be together'
I've learned what I don't want in a person and what I'm willing to put up with and what i'm not willing to put up with. In the 1st relationship I learned that I really wouldn't want a guy who would yes me to death and wouldnt' stand up for himself.
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iquel
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None, the only real serious relationship I've had is FH.
T E R I
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I had 2 relationships before FH, 1 was on/off for 5 years and other was 7 months
Me and FH have been together for 5 years
kat2010
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no one serious before fh, only a few boyfriends. i was 17 when fh and i started dating.
regy_k
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none. FH is my 1st bf after 28 yrs of dating here and there and nothing ever working over one date. and then there were just guys I hooked up with. I am so happy that FH is my one and only, I feel as if I was waiting for HIM
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Hmm I'd say 1 serious relationship (3 years). I have to say a learned A LOT from it. We went down swinging, but we're friendly now.
little j
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nothing serious. just dating.
MikesBride2B
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I had I guess 1 serious relationship before FH...we were together for almost 3 years. It just wasn't good, there was no communication, and I think he was just going to propose because he figured that we'd been together so long that it just made sense. I broke up with him before that happened though. I learned a lot about what I didn't want and how important it is to have communication in a relationship.
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one. I actually lived with him for almost 5 years!! But we moved in together too quickly. I blame the terroists!! Seriously it was when 9/11 happened that I ended up staying over his house more and more. The trains were crazy to get back to long island and i was working in the city insane hours. I worked at a corporate housing company so some nights I stayed in one of those apartments but mostly got booted out and had to go to Fhs house in the bronx. Every week I would bring clothes for that week. One day I had a panic attack because I realized I hadn´t been home in about 2 months!! I was so naive that I thought now I had to stay there because otherwise it was a step back in the relationship. I don´t think he wanted me there yet either. So we were two people living together who didn´t want to be living together!! Not exactly the best way to start a relationship!!
Don´t get me wrong we had a lot of great times and all but overall it was the lack of communication that was our downfall. It taught me how important communication is in a relationship. With FH we communicate a lot (sometimes too much). My prev relationship also taught me a lot of things that I DON´T want in a relationship which I don´t have with FH!! (although we have our share of issues as any couple does)
