We're on a break....

Original post by DnellD809

Apr 08, 2007 05:19 PM

and I feel like my whole world just fell apart.
I was right...the move to Denver was my worst fear and now he doesn't know if we should be together.....

TheFutureMrsM Posted: Apr 08, 2007 11:48 PM

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Im very sorry to hear this news, be strong, and you know you can always count on your LIW girls, I hope everything works out for you!

karen6474 Posted: Apr 08, 2007 11:50 PM

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Posted by KickinDandelions

Posted by DnellD809

He called and it's over....he says he really didn't cheat on me which I don't even care right now. I just can't believe this is happening.

OMG!!!!! i'm sooooo sorry!!!!!! i cant believe this is happening to you!!! FM me if you wanna talk!!!!

kimNanthony Posted: Apr 08, 2007 11:51 PM

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I'm so sorry to hear whats going on with you. I'm sure it must be really difficult and we are all here for you. ANd of course you should still stay on LIW and talk to us! I know things are difficult right now but I don't think this is the end. He will realize what he has with you and come running back. For now if I were you I would make myself unavailable because it will make him realize how much he misses you. The whole thing about him sleeping at the girls house is not cool at all and it seems like he completely disrespected your feelings.

alymikewedding08 Posted: Apr 09, 2007 12:29 AM

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I am SO SO SO SO SORRY!!! and for him he should never have disrespected or hurt you.. even if he needed a break.. he should put your feelings totally into play because you did NOTHING to deserve being hurt!!!

Whatever happens I really wish you the best and all of the happiness in the world.. and I hope that he snaps out of it.. realizes how great of a girl he has .. and how it would be SOOO horrible to lose you! xoxoxoxoxoxo for u!!

jgl Posted: Apr 09, 2007 01:51 AM

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I am so sorry for all you are going through right now. I just hope that everything works out for the best!

You have to go with your gut and even though you may love someone so much, sometimes that love has to be strong enough to let them go. Wait him out, hopefully he will come around and realize what he has.

i just don't understand men sometimes. They get engaged and then they freak out. At what point did they not realize this is going to be a BIG step? I would think handing a jeweler and load of money for a ring would be a wake up call... dont you?

AMGBride2008 Posted: Apr 09, 2007 09:05 AM

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Hang in there... sometimes a huge transition like this can take a toll on your relationship. I hope everything works out for you... we're here for ya!

Fall Bride 2008 Posted: Apr 09, 2007 09:09 AM

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I am so sorry to hear this I hope it all works out for you guys

JM4EVA Posted: Apr 09, 2007 10:48 AM

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So sorry to hear about this. Just take one day at a time. And remember that everything happens for a reason. Even though it's hard, try to stay strong.

megzzie Posted: Apr 09, 2007 10:58 AM

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I'm so sorry that this is happening! I hope everything works out for the best. If you need to talk, we're here for you!

soon2BMrsMcD Posted: Apr 09, 2007 11:01 AM

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Posted by DnellD809

He thought we were fighting too much...well if we were then I DON'T KNOW WHERE I WAS.... cause I din't think we were. I think he is just making excuses because he wants to live his life out there and be free....he already has for the past 2 nights AND hung out with that GIRL i asked him not to and spent the night at her house

He spent the night at her house??!?!
Hun..maybe it's for the best if this is how he's being!

TGs Lady 22908 Posted: Apr 09, 2007 11:25 AM

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I feel so terrible for you. Heartbreak ***** but be strong and you will get thru it. I'm sorry

and please....it's totally his loss

love2plan1 Posted: Apr 09, 2007 11:27 AM

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Posted by hayleyandsteve

I am so sorry to hear this!

Sometimes though, you'll find that these things work out for the best. Either you two figure out how much you REALLY love each other and want to make this work... or you find that it wasn't meant to be. I know that it must be very hard for you right now, but I think it's best that this happened BEFORE you two got married.

I'm sending you FM....

I am so sorry as well. I agree though, FH and I had a break like that a while back as well, and it started off the way you are saying but helped us come closer together.

Julybride08 Posted: Apr 09, 2007 11:29 AM

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I am so sorry. I am sure everything will work out for the best. You are young and you can find anyone. And someone who will appreciate you more and not do something liek that to you.

SugaBeans Posted: Apr 09, 2007 11:34 AM

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This is not what I expect to read when I come on this site. Losing a bride is like losing a friends. Even though we dont know eachother on a personal level, we talk to eachother everyday and give our advice. I cant begin to say that I know how you feel, and that everything will be ok. I dont know what I would do if i was in your position. But Goodluck to you and know we are all here to talk if you need us!

jjk1007 Posted: Apr 09, 2007 11:38 AM

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This thread is so sad. Im so sorry. I hope things work out for the best for the two of you...even if it means you dont end up together.

Espo22 Posted: Apr 09, 2007 11:49 AM

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Posted by DnellD809

He thought we were fighting too much...well if we were then I DON'T KNOW WHERE I WAS.... cause I din't think we were. I think he is just making excuses because he wants to live his life out there and be free....he already has for the past 2 nights AND hung out with that GIRL i asked him not to and spent the night at her house

OMG i am soooooo soooo sorry ...Its hard to pick the right words to say to someone, because almost no matter what you say it wont help at the moment. Just talk to him and tell him to explain everything to you, you deserve that much after all this time. Alot of people get scared when making such big decisions in their lives, its a natural reaction...Talk to him and see where his head is at...Again i am so sorry you have to go through this right now

Belongs2DanBuckley Posted: Apr 09, 2007 12:05 PM

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OMG

Honestly and truly I am so sorry that you're going through this. That's just terrible and its not fair. I've read through the comments and they're all pretty valid. I know its hard right now, but it could be so much worse. I have a friend going through a divorce right now and he has 2 small kids....sometimes things happend for a reason, sometimes that reason isn't always right in front of your face.

Distance can really make or break a relationship. Its not easy for anyone involved. I think the combination of everything was overwhelming. If he did have these feelings and was weak enough to acton them, better you know now then after. Plus, you never know what will happen in the future. FH and I dated for 7 years before we were engaged and I can tell you they were NOT all wine and roses!

Don't get too down....you never know what life will hand you. This may end up being the best thing that ever happened to you or one of the hardest times of your life...either way your going to make it through this and we'll all be here for you.

Good luck chick! Keep you head up!

AS Posted: Apr 09, 2007 12:20 PM

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I am soooo sorry to hear that also. I have seen you posting on here and you are such a sweet person. He moved to Denver for work right? Would you want to more there also? Maybe you guys can work something out. I hope you and FH can work through this.