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OH NO!!! im sooo sorry!!! i second everything everyone else said before me!!

be strong and keep your head up & things will work out the way they were ment to be!!!

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i'm so sorry that you're going through this. Actually, a few of my friends have gone through similar situations...after being together a few years and talking about marriage, the guy wanted his single life back and ended the relationship. In most of the cases, the guys came crawling back after a few weeks begging to be taken back. I hope your guy opens his eyes are realizes what a great thing he has in you.

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i once heard this quote... 'advice is something you ask for when you know the answer, but wish you didn't'

i think that if you have this strong suspision, feel like he has changed, and hear a difference in his voice.... that unfortunately, you might be right.

a lot of times your gut feelings are pretty accurate.... i think you really need to ask him WHAT happened. if he did cheat, i would think that you probably wouldn't want to marry this man... this is something you need to know.

when you truly love someone... you want them to be happy. and sometimes, as hard as it is, you're not a part of that happines... if he loves you, he needs to tell you the truth and let you make your decisions from there. in my life, i've found that you have to always tell the truth, no matter what... no matter how hard it is... you have to let that person feel what they are going to feel (sadness, anger, whatever...) so that they can heal. when you lie, you don't let the person feel the emotions that they need to feel in order to move on...

im not sure if this makes sense to you....

but im praying that the man you love wouldn't and hasn't done anything to hurt you...

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I am so sorry. It's not easy. You wil l get through it though. FM me is you need anything or just to talk. We are all here for you.

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I am sorry to hear about this.. I can't really give my opinion because most of what i would of said has been said. I feel terrible I am sorry!!!

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Aww Hun!!!!!!

I have been thru this with FH. He came to me one day after we were engaged for a few mons and told me he was unhappy and needed space and poof! We were on a break. My heart was sooo broken. I dropped weight and I had a month long headache from crying everyday and living in fear. All along, my gut told me that it would work out. And it did.

He freaked out after everythign became real..this wasnt something we were just talking about anymore.

I can totally understand what your going thru, its a mikserable feeling.

Just give it time and space,a nd I know that it *****. He may need time to miss you. But as other girls have suggested, a girls night out seems to be in order. Id take u out but ur in cali! So now you MUST come to NY!

Just breathe and go with what ur gut tells u.

If you need anything please fm me!

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Sweetie!! i am soo sorry!! my heart goes out to you. during this hard time, please remember everything happens for a reason. take this time to be with ur girlfriends and really try to think about ur relationship and if this is something YOU want to be in.

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He called and it's over....he says he really didn't cheat on me which I don't even care right now. I just can't believe this is happening.

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I hope it works out
My bil and sister went through a similar situation when he returned fro Iraq.... He was trying to adjust to normal everyday things.... It took them a year to get back on track .... You will be in my thoughts

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i'm sooo sorry to hear that! i hope you are okay. i know no words can comfort you right now-- but hope this hug will give you some warmth.

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He called and it's over....he says he really didn't cheat on me which I don't even care right now. I just can't believe this is happening.

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I'm so sorry. It will all work out for the best

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Thanks girls for all the support! I know things will work out for the best! Even he said his parents seperated for a year..she moved and they ended up getting married. There is always hope and I just want to be happy

Omg I don't know what I'm going to do without this site....it's truly an addiction and I love you girls...you've all been sooooo helpful and GREAT!
Maybe i'll still hang around and lurk or give some advice or something, give it up slowly hahaha
Gosh I was sooooo close to my shirt tooo!

Thanks again girls!

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I'm so sorry to hear about your situation. i can't imagine how hard this must be

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He called and it's over....he says he really didn't cheat on me which I don't even care right now. I just can't believe this is happening.

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OMG sweetie I am so so sorry to hear this. I hate that I haven't been able to get on all day!! Things will work out for the best...you're such a beautiful person and you deserve to be happy...I know in the end everything happens for a reason..even when it doesn't seem like it right now. We're here for you!!!

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You're always welcome here!!! We'd love your advice!

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im really sorry all of this is happening...

and things will work out no matter what... whether they are good for you at the moment or later on.. things will work out for the best for you always...

you are the first and foremost MOST important in all of this right now...

if you doubt him or you both being together... take your time... its best things happen now.. then later on.

we are all here for you. ...

Debbie

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we are always here if you need us! Keep us posted , I will cross my fingers.

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