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Were you honest with church about living together?

GettinHutched Posted:

Were you honest with church about living together?

We're meeting with the Deacon tomorrow night. I'm really not sure how to handle the issue of us living together. How did you deal with it?

What kinds of questions should I be prepared to answer in our first meeting to book a date?

Thanks!
sfmullen Posted:

Re: Were you honest with church about living together?

when I met my priest he asked my FH address then he asked mine and I said ' the same' and he didnt say anything

ETA But I didnt go to Precana yet it is this weekend so Ill let you know
GettinHutched Posted:

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We're meeting with a Deacon- and I happened to graduate catholic school with his son- I'm hoping he'll be easy on us!

MayBride06 Posted:

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They never directly asked us. But we provided different mailing addresses!
waterspout4 Posted:

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They understand that life has changed, turst me. My DH and I lived together, but had separate bedrooms. We were nervous, but it never came up.

sfmullen Posted:

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Posted by waterspout4

They understand that life has changed, turst me. My DH and I lived together, but had separate bedrooms. We were nervous, but it never came up.



did you really sleep in seperate bedrooms! come on fess up!
Captsarkasm Posted:

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FH and I completely avoided the topic.....so much so that we changed the message on our answering machine so it no longer says 'Hi, you've reached Scott and Colleen'....but just says 'We can't come to the phone right now...blah blah blah'
thelastresort Posted:

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No...they don't need to know that. It just adds additional stress to you anyway.

Mandyin2007 Posted:

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We were honest... no one cared

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