werid question

Original post by azailia

Nov 10, 2008 08:17 PM

My father passed away when I was six.

I always knew that my wedding day would be really hard. I usually leave the room when the father/daughter dance is on, at previous weddings.

Would it be weird if I danced a father/daughter song with my FH as a tribute?

08JulyBride Posted: Nov 11, 2008 03:16 PM

Re: werid question

I'd say go for it if you think you can handle it!

My dad died when I was 14. I skipped the dance entirely at my wedding. There is a song by his favorite band that every time I hear it, I feel like he's with me... so instead of the dance, I had that song played during dinner... I didn't want it announced because it was special to just me, made me feel like he was there.

ljorange3 Posted: Nov 17, 2008 02:53 PM

Re: werid question

I think it's great. My father passed away when I was 17 and I am going to dance with my brother to a song that reminds us of our Dad as a tribute to us and him.

Karsav7096 Posted: Nov 17, 2008 03:23 PM

Re: werid question

I don't think that is weird at all. I lost my dad when I
was 18 I will be 38 and still can't stay at wedding during the father/daughter dance. But if you can handle it then do it. I am getting married the night before my dads b-day so at midnight FH will dance to a song as a tribute to my dad. FH suggested a photomontage to play during the dance but I think that will be wayyyyy to hard. Go with your heart on this one!!!