We'll be having our reception at the Westbury Manor next July, and we chose it because we heard nothing but good things about it. Someone in my bridesmaid's family was married there along with one of my friends and they both said people are still raving about their reception years later. The food is wonderful; Chad let us taste some of the appetizers and they were out of this world. The price per head was reasonable too, especially for the summer, when any place within a mile of water thinks they can charge $100 a person. The Fox Hollow I don't know too much about, but the Scotto Brothers seem to have a good reputation in general. Good luck with everything.
Luckily we are not in debt and everything has already been paid for.
I agree you should not budget on what you think you might get, believe me we sure didn't.