Westbury Manor BM / Afterhours Dj

Hi Girls,

I am a Westbury Manor Bride to be...September 18, 2011. Has anyone been dealing with the BM Mel and what do you think of him. I am currently being pushed away with all my questions and concerns and its so frustrating to me. I want my day to be perfect and know the in's and out's of stuff I will be able to do and not. Do you think I will be able to change BM if I asked, I am so pissed about this whole thing.
I also have another question for the girls who are used or are going to use afterhours DJ. Are they resonable with price, how is their work and what was the outcome of the day after using them. I was planning on using the band, but don't know what type of $$ we are looking at, or add a live percession to the DJ.