We've all seen posts on what WE think is romantic....what about the men??
btrflygrl
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Men of LIW...what do you think is 'romantic'...either what you think is or what you do or what you would like your lady to do for you....
don424
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For me, I'm not hard to please -- going out to a nice restaurant is good enough for me
Xelindrya
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no other thoughts? Is it really THAT simple to please a guy?
Jim's happiest if he gets to sleep in as late as he wants, gets to play video games and then taken out for a really fullfilling meal top that off with dessert ... and he's all mine! heh
I can pretty much get him to do anything for me.
Food is definately the way to Jim's heart. Food and relaxation.
btrflygrl
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Rich is the same Xel....give him a nice steak and he's happy....
give him a couple of beers and he's just downright silly!!!
We are homebodies....he's so simple...show a little skin, do a little dance....
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I guess I'm much more complicated... OR.. maybe.. I'm just high maintenance!
I have a deep attraction to mystery.. darkness(Not anything evil!), romance, passion.
Lots of times I think the most romantic moments encompass.... Candles.. very dim lighting.. the FW has a fireplace.. that is sooo cool.. music.. soft (Enya & Norah Jones). RED wine with chocolate.. Barry White too!
Being in the darkness.. oils.. aromatherapy. Love the smell of lavender.
That's what I think is romantic.
btrflygrl
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I guess I'm much more complicated... OR.. maybe.. I'm just high maintenance!
I have a deep attraction to mystery.. darkness(Not anything evil!), romance, passion.
Lots of times I think the most romantic moments encompass.... Candles.. very dim lighting.. the FW has a fireplace.. that is sooo cool.. music.. soft (Enya & Norah Jones). RED wine with chocolate.. Barry White too!
Being in the darkness.. oils.. aromatherapy. Love the smell of lavender.
That's what I think is romantic.
I WISH HE WAS LIKE THAT, EVEN JUST RARELY!!!!
OctGroom
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I guess I'm much more complicated... OR.. maybe.. I'm just high maintenance!
I have a deep attraction to mystery.. darkness(Not anything evil!), romance, passion.
Lots of times I think the most romantic moments encompass.... Candles.. very dim lighting.. the FW has a fireplace.. that is sooo cool.. music.. soft (Enya & Norah Jones). RED wine with chocolate.. Barry White too!
Being in the darkness.. oils.. aromatherapy. Love the smell of lavender.
That's what I think is romantic.
Oh... and to consummate everything.. And to set the mood off just right..
Put on the Mets game and have the FW breathlessly whisper 'Let's Go Mets'.. in my ear..while wearing a little something something..
Actually.. this last part would never happen.. she lilkes some other NY baseball team.
Seriously.. forget the Mets stuff above here...
It's all about mood. That's the trick.
Xelindrya
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Posted by OctGroom
I guess I'm much more complicated... OR.. maybe.. I'm just high maintenance!
I have a deep attraction to mystery.. darkness(Not anything evil!), romance, passion.
Lots of times I think the most romantic moments encompass.... Candles.. very dim lighting.. the FW has a fireplace.. that is sooo cool.. music.. soft (Enya & Norah Jones). RED wine with chocolate.. Barry White too!
Being in the darkness.. oils.. aromatherapy. Love the smell of lavender.
That's what I think is romantic.
Try Loreena McKennitt 'The Hummer's Dance' or 'Highway Man' very mystical and mysterious. Irish in nature although I think one song makes me think of Indian Scarf Dancing...
Album Book of Secrets Loreena McKennitt
Jim, thank god, has learned to appreciate those sort of things.
Still I think he gets more into that kind of stuff because it’s a turn on for me and therefore good for him, more than him liking it on his own. Frankly I could care less. It sets the mood for me and if Im happy, he’s happy.
But….. OctGroom you are MORE than welcome to come over and teach Jim a few tricks! LOL Explain to him why this stuff is so soothing to begin with.
OSCARtheGROOM
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Rich is the same Xel....give him a nice steak and he's happy....
give him a couple of beers and he's just downright silly!!!
We are homebodies....he's so simple...show a little skin, do a little dance....
Thats all my fw has to do for me. I am really easy going person.
OctGroom
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Posted by OctGroom
I guess I'm much more complicated... OR.. maybe.. I'm just high maintenance!
I have a deep attraction to mystery.. darkness(Not anything evil!), romance, passion.
Lots of times I think the most romantic moments encompass.... Candles.. very dim lighting.. the FW has a fireplace.. that is sooo cool.. music.. soft (Enya & Norah Jones). RED wine with chocolate.. Barry White too!
Being in the darkness.. oils.. aromatherapy. Love the smell of lavender.
That's what I think is romantic.
Try Loreena McKennitt 'The Hummer's Dance' or 'Highway Man' very mystical and mysterious. Irish in nature although I think one song makes me think of Indian Scarf Dancing...
Album Book of Secrets Loreena McKennitt
Jim, thank god, has learned to appreciate those sort of things.
Still I think he gets more into that kind of stuff because it’s a turn on for me and therefore good for him, more than him liking it on his own. Frankly I could care less. It sets the mood for me and if Im happy, he’s happy.
But….. OctGroom you are MORE than welcome to come over and teach Jim a few tricks! LOL Explain to him why this stuff is so soothing to begin with.
OK.. But I'm afraid I'll turn him into a diva like me! Then you'll hate me. J/K I'm just a regular guy over the years but I have learned that if you got that extra mile.. it comes back to benefit ya. Boomerang.
And I have no doubt he's a good man.. and he loves ya.. what more could a girl want?
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Put on the Mets game and have the FW breathlessly whisper 'Let's Go Mets'.. in my ear..while wearing a little something something..
LMAO!
Xelindrya
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Posted by OctGroom OK.. But I'm afraid I'll turn him into a diva like me! Then you'll hate me. J/K I'm just a regular guy over the years but I have learned that if you got that extra mile.. it comes back to benefit ya. Boomerang.
And I have no doubt he's a good man.. and he loves ya.. what more could a girl want?
no offense.. but I'd never hate you.. pfft.
Besides.. I KNOW what I like and so does he and he's good at getting me what I like for the .. uhm... bommerang effect. and THAT's all a girl could want.
The question was.. what does a GUY like?
It's easy for me when I walk in and see candles and hear harps in the air to know what it's all about, but the question is what tips off a guy?
ROMANTICALLY We women all know the buttons to push to turn you on, that's easy, but what ROMANCES you?
What makes you step in a room and feel warm and calm and sort of that 'ahhhhh' feeling? It's not a rush of passion just a soothing melt into seduction.. THAT is romance. (JMHO)
don424
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sports on the tube and the smell of dinner
Xelindrya
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sports on the tube and the smell of dinner
OctGroom
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sports on the tube and the smell of dinner
exactly...
What it is exactly.. i'm not sure.. it's a kind of mind frame that just gets me going.. it envolves invoking all the sense.. the mood.
Making me mind work is very much something that I really enjoy. It's so much more than 'BOING'! I know a lot of guys feel differently.. but it's the gothic nature of seduction... the mystery.. the idea of a woman as a muse that gets me going.
It's like the definition of porn.. (everything can be alikened to porn.. LOL) you can't describe it.. but you know it when you see it.
LMAO.. oh geez.....
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Posted by Xelindrya
Try Loreena McKennitt 'The Hummer's Dance' or 'Highway Man' very mystical and mysterious. Irish in nature although I think one song makes me think of Indian Scarf Dancing...
