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What a bucking fitch!!! (Very Long)

CubanBride Posted:

What a bucking fitch!!! (Very Long)

I am not sure if you gals remember that woman I had complained about in the past about getting pregnant on purpose so they wouldn't have to go t the wedding (FH's best friend's wife). Well she just did herself in!

Last night FH comes home from work and asks me if I want to go to dinner with them. Now, he already knows I cannot stand her, but because that is his bet friend, I said ok. I was in a good mood and I figured what the hell.

So we are chatting in the restaurant and having a nice time and she starts making little remarks like she always does. Like when I stated we are took a dance lessons, she laughed and said to Gary 'is she going to make you wear a tutu too?' Or when she asked Gary how the wedding planning was going and he said ask me because I know more of the details than he does. She says 'well does she let you make any decisions'? There were other little remarks that annoyed both me and Gary but we let it go.

But the crap hit the fan she asked if we are playing the chicken dance.I said 'No. We have a list of 75 songs and if the DJ deviates from that list, he breaks his contract.'

She says, 'what if someone requests a song'? I say, 'the DJ cannot okay it if it's on our DO Not Play List'.

Well she goes bezerk saying how she has never heard of such a thing, how that is the most rude and arrogant thing ever, and that the wedding, GET THIS, is not about us. She says this over and over, about 6 or 7 times and she says it loud and agitated. Gary says to her 'it's ok, relax' and she says 'why' with such a nasty attitude and I am just sitting there stewing, knowing that I absolutely cannot open my mouth because if I do, we will be walking home from the restaurant. Eventually her husband says to her 'honey calm down', but she shoots hit the nastiest look and he just puts his head down.

So Gary is still telling her to relax and that we are just trying to have a nice dinner and she is still saying 'why'. I am sitting there eating my hot buffalo wings, with no alcohol in sight. I wanted to reach over and smack the daylights out of her. But, proudly, I kept my self control.

So the rest of the night the 3 of us chatted and she sat there looking like an idot. She didn't even say goodbye when we separated. What a fitch!!!

When we walked in the house I said to FH, 'I am done with her!' And he agreed.

Are we wrong to not want to hear the friggin chicken dance or the damn electric slide? We are paying for this aren't we? We are providing the fitch with food and beverage right? You mean to tell me she cannot deal with not hearing the fooking money dance. Give Me a friggin break!!!!

So, she is now removed from the bridal shower, the bridal party dinner, and I know they aren't coming to the wedding now. I am fine with it. I just feel bad because her husband is such a nice guy.
Happybride2005 Posted:

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you have every right to play what you want at your wedding. you're paying for it not her

ShelliNMando Posted:

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Sorry about that but she really does sound like a N-A-S-T-Y fitch!

You are not wrong to not want to have those dances at your wedding. FH and I decided against them too and most of our close friends/relatives are happy about it. Not many people get up for those anyway, at least at the weddings I've been to.

Forget her, it IS your wedding.
halfpintny Posted:

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You are absolutely NOT wrong. It's your day and you can have whatever you want. And it certainly is NOT ok for HER to dictate to YOU whate is appropriate at YOUR wedding. Hold your ground!

JPC1125 Posted:

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holey moses!!! What a crackho! Does she have issues with her own wedding??? Cause it sounds like shes reeling from her own issues that she dealt with


just shrug it off and keep away from her...maybe just keep in touch with the husband if you can

sorry she ruined your dinner
Summer05 Posted:

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OMG she is crazy!
BethGail Posted:

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you are NOT wrong! sorry she ruiined your dinner...she is nuts

MrsA814 Posted:

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what a wacky person. I'm like you if someone is saying stuff i just want to smack them but you know you can't BUt i'm sorry that you had to deal with that and now he is not coming to the wedding it is hard.

chachou22 Posted:

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sometimes people dont think before they speak and she should just keep her mouth shut
jpavig Posted:

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You're a bigger person than I would have been. I'd have lost it in the middle of dinner and told her exactly what I thought of her. Dumb *****

frosty Posted:

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What a witch. If it wasn't the chicken dance, she'd find something else to complain about.

Aga Posted:

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I am amazed that you didnt punch the biatch, I am all admiration... look at it this way, you are rid of her and dont have to stress anymore that she will ruin your wedding day...

JCMsGirl05 Posted:

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Sorry she ruined your night!
alexlynn7 Posted:

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i really admire how you handled the whole thing - you sat back and let the situation take care of itself. i can definitely see how you feel bad for her husband, and for your fh since this is his best friend... but thank goodness you're now rid of her!
bluesashbride Posted:

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props to you for being classy and not saying anything just to get even. shame the husband is normal and she's not...but at least her true colors were shown to everyone, so they understand now why she's not welcome...

and that stuff she said about 'its not about you.' whatever??!! geez!
takeoutcook Posted:

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I'm not sure which is more surprising - that she was so out of line and childish, or that she was so personally invested in hearing the chicken dance.

marc_rai Posted:

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OMG, you are so good. I think I would have argued back with her.

She's weird!
SomethingBlu Posted:

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The wedding's not about you?! Who's getting married? LOL
She's nuts! Wow, she really doesn't like you, huh?
Sorry you had to go through this, sorry you had to leave the house for this aggravation, but I'm glad that she made an A S S out of herself in front of your FH and her hubby, there's no way you will ever get blamed for being 'rude' or 'cold' or whatever else they could ever blame you for - she's nuts!
Kudos on keeping your calm under severe pressure - this one's for you!

Oh, and congrats on finding a way to get her out of your festivities, luckily for you she's an idiot and made that really simple!
littlebookworm4 Posted:

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MY GOD she sounds like an absolute nightmare!!! I don't knpw how you sat there!

MACGIRL Posted:

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I would do the same thing...you dont need here there to ruin your time. F#@% her!!

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