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What a bucking fitch!!! (Very Long)

Original post by CubanBride

I am not sure if you gals remember that woman I had complained about in the past about getting pregnant on purpose so they wouldn't have to go t the wedding (FH's best friend's wife). Well she just did herself in!

Last night FH comes home from work and asks me if I want to go to dinner with them. Now, he already knows I cannot stand her, but because that is his bet friend, I said ok. I was in a good mood and I figured what the hell.

So we are chatting in the restaurant and having a nice time and she starts making little remarks like she always does. Like when I stated we are took a dance lessons, she laughed and said to Gary 'is she going to make you wear a tutu too?' Or when she asked Gary how the wedding planning was going and he said ask me because I know more of the details than he does. She says 'well does she let you make any decisions'? There were other little remarks that annoyed both me and Gary but we let it go.

But the crap hit the fan she asked if we are playing the chicken dance.I said 'No. We have a list of 75 songs and if the DJ deviates from that list, he breaks his contract.'

She says, 'what if someone requests a song'? I say, 'the DJ cannot okay it if it's on our DO Not Play List'.

Well she goes bezerk saying how she has never heard of such a thing, how that is the most rude and arrogant thing ever, and that the wedding, GET THIS, is not about us. She says this over and over, about 6 or 7 times and she says it loud and agitated. Gary says to her 'it's ok, relax' and she says 'why' with such a nasty attitude and I am just sitting there stewing, knowing that I absolutely cannot open my mouth because if I do, we will be walking home from the restaurant. Eventually her husband says to her 'honey calm down', but she shoots hit the nastiest look and he just puts his head down.

So Gary is still telling her to relax and that we are just trying to have a nice dinner and she is still saying 'why'. I am sitting there eating my hot buffalo wings, with no alcohol in sight. I wanted to reach over and smack the daylights out of her. But, proudly, I kept my self control.

So the rest of the night the 3 of us chatted and she sat there looking like an idot. She didn't even say goodbye when we separated. What a fitch!!!

When we walked in the house I said to FH, 'I am done with her!' And he agreed.

Are we wrong to not want to hear the friggin chicken dance or the damn electric slide? We are paying for this aren't we? We are providing the fitch with food and beverage right? You mean to tell me she cannot deal with not hearing the fooking money dance. Give Me a friggin break!!!!

So, she is now removed from the bridal shower, the bridal party dinner, and I know they aren't coming to the wedding now. I am fine with it. I just feel bad because her husband is such a nice guy.
gNi1125 Posted:

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Honestly, I would have preferred to crawl home and give that biatch a piece of my mind!!!! The nerve of her!!! If the wedding isn't about you and Gary then who is it about????? Her?!?!. Psycho! Some people are nuts...I feel sorry for ur FH's BF! Pheewwww!
Sunshine128 Posted:

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If I was you I'd have the DJ dedicate the CHICKEN DANCE TO THE CHICKEN HEAD and SAY HER NAME! LOL
NYtherapist Posted:

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First of all, I commend you on the manner in which you handled the situation. You maintained your compusure and in the end, she was made to look the fool.

Second of all, you are well within your rights to provide the dj with a do not play list. You are shelling out a lot of money and if there's a song (or 100 songs) that you do not want played, your guests will survive.

I've been to numerous weddings where a song requested by a guest wasn't played because the bride & groom told the dj that particular song wasn't to be played.

I'm sorry that you and your fiance had to endure such an uncomfortable evening.
CubanBride Posted:

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Thanks ladies!

akaMrsT Posted:

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Wow!!! What a horrible person to have to deal with. I'm glad you kept your cool. I feel sorry for her husband.

BTW - what's the 'chicken dance'?
suezboss Posted:

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THAT'S CRAZY!!!

the day IS about you 2, NOT her! what an idiot!

you're better off with her not coming anyways! she'd just get you upsed that day anyway!
Lady Di Posted:

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I feel so bad for your FH and his friend that their friendship will most likely never be the same b/c of her.
First, I cannot believe you didn't say anything. You have more restraint than I think I would have!! She is nuts!!
Second, you have every right to have a 'do not play' list. I plan on having one...I do not want the chicken dance or electric slide or macarena or any of them played either. My band will be instructed that they can absolutely NOT play these songs, even if requested. My wedding, my choice.
And third, your wedding means about YOU!!!
Again, she's NUTS!!
bogiedmb41 Posted:

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tell her she can do the chicken dance in traffic what a snot. its your wedding your money your day you guys do what you like and thats it.
lanikai Posted:

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She sounds jealous to me. You have every right to have a do not play list. What an unpleasant person-definitely not worth inviting to the wedding.

CubanBride Posted:

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kdrainey, I don't ave a clue what the chicken dance is. And, just by it's name alone, I know I don't want it.
jimmysgrl Posted:

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Holy cow! I am so sorry, I'm glad your FH is standing by your side through this, I really am. Now he finally sees whats really going on with his supposed friend....
akaMrsT Posted:

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Posted by CubanBride

kdrainey, I don't ave a clue what the chicken dance is. And, just by it's name alone, I know I don't want it.





Sounds like something I would put on the DO NOT PLAY list too - assuming it is a song with an associated dance like Cha Cha Slide/ Electric Slide/ Macarena. You should find out.....just in case you can do the 'chicken dance' to more than one song.
tray831 Posted:

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OMG--I honestly got so boiled reading the post, and I dont even know her, that I dont know how you sat there w/ such a B**CH like that--she had NO right to say what she said and the f'n B A L L S to judge it. Wow!

Anyway, let her play or dance to the chicken dance in her own house if she likes it so freakin much. What issues!?

Chicken dance is literally a song they play that when played, the guests usually dance like a chicken (not too far from the lines of the Hokey Pokey).......was fun when I was like 5 not now though......
Marisa M Posted:

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The point is NOT the chicken dance or your 'do not play list' the POINT is that sometimes people just have to keep their opinions regarding your decisions to themselves. - If she thought it was rude and arrogant and blah blah well then that's her opinion......but you don't SAY that to the bride !!! what an A$$ !

nylibride Posted:

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Posted by takeoutcook

I'm not sure which is more surprising - that she was so out of line and childish, or that she was so personally invested in hearing the chicken dance.



Hilarious response. laughed out loud.

so sorry this person ruined your dinner. sounds like she would have found anything to 'start up' with you. Even if she 'wanted' to come to the wedding or any related activities (which hopefully she doesn't) I would bar her from all events unless she came groveling to apologize.

12-3Princess Posted:

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wow - she is a fitch! You handled yourself so maturely and you acted like you were so above her! Good for you, that is a hard thing to do.
I feel bad for FH that they won't be at the wedding but you know what? It is out of your hands - that is a decision for THEM to make. If they choose not to go, it's their problem.

She already made herself look like an a__hole. I've found that people that make little comments like that and act like her are really just miserable in their own lives. You should probably pity the woman. In any event, try not to let her get to you. Is there any chance she's jealous of you for some reason?

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