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What A Mess!!

Lilac1543 Posted:

What A Mess!!

Well, my BP is fighting. Nasty emails were sent to one another. My Mom know hates my SIL. My FH knew all about what was going on but didn't want be told b/c he didn't want me upset. But someone in the BP spilled the beans to me and said not to be upset..etc....So FH is really angry that I was told when he was trying so hard to protect me from this. I was HYSTERICALLY crying last night! Couldn't eat..was puking...etc. My MIL, cousins, my mom were on the phone with me at separate times trying to make me feel better...all I did was cry so hard I hyperventilated. I hate being in this position because I love both families and both sides can be difficult to deal with. So, I'm still not feeling too much better...cried on the way to work this morning..I couldn't sleep last night and have a massive headache now.
It all seems like a lot of miscommunication, hurt feelings, who felt left out of the shower, who's not returning who's phone calls, my SIL said something to my cousin that I said to her in confidence and that got back to my mom (was just venting about my mom, like we all do), etc.
Sorry...just needed to let this out and get fresh prespectives.
I just wanted everyone to get along and have there not be problems.
AMGBride2008 Posted:

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Make sure you go out and have yourself a nice liquid lunch today, sounds like you need/deserve it!!
RGV07 Posted:

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sorry you going through, dont worry everything will work itself out!!!!!!

billandme Posted:

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Is there a way you can sit down with whomever is involved with this and talk it all out? That's really the only way it will get fixed. I know right now it seems like the end of the world, but it really isn't. Trust me Your wedding is in 3.5 weeks......you dont' need this extra stress right now.

Take a deep breath..............
HollyMac Posted:

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SN2BMRSBURTE Posted:

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I hope you are feeling better! Sometimes people get so carried away with planning things for other people. They don't realize while it's all going on that all the fighting can end up ruining it for the bride. I'm sorry, I hope everything works out, and they can just forget about all that's happened, because I'm sure they all want the same thing...to give you a wonderful shower/wedding.
Soon2beMrsH Posted:

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I am so sorry. What if you or someone else was able to sit them down and act as a moderator to try and clear the air and get back to what is important.. making this special for you.
StarryEyedBride Posted:

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hunnybunnyxoxo Posted:

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so sorry!! i hope everything works out!!
tricia3381 Posted:

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Posted by Soon2beMrsH

I am so sorry. What if you or someone else was able to sit them down and act as a moderator to try and clear the air and get back to what is important.. making this special for you.



thats a great idea.
good luck!
diva7531 Posted:

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Posted by billandme

Is there a way you can sit down with whomever is involved with this and talk it all out? That's really the only way it will get fixed. I know right now it seems like the end of the world, but it really isn't. Trust me Your wedding is in 3.5 weeks......you dont' need this extra stress right now.

Take a deep breath..............



That's what I woudl do, and tell them all to get it out and over with and then act like adults. I am sorry you have to deal with this Sh!t. Hope they all grow up and relax!

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