Ok, it seems that FH and I are fighting almost once a week. And it seems to be mostly over how much we're both working, never see each other and never have anything to show for the hard work. All of our money goes to the wedding and I think that's starting to get to us. (Him more than me) Anyone else having this problem?
MrsA814
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Don't think it is just you it is probaly everyone else to. Fighting about this. It is a ver stressful time. Everyone has been telling iti s going to get worse at the end. I just have to live with it to we are all happy married.
Butterflybride
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Hmm, we pretty much fight about EVERYTHING right now, no matter how ridiculous it may seem. We're just both pretty stressed out. Everything's happening so quickly.
jpavig
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We actually fought last night over him playing X-Box all night. The fights are really getting ridiculous. But I still love him to death.
Butterflybride
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Posted by jpavig
We actually fought last night over him playing X-Box all night. The fights are really getting ridiculous. But I still love him to death.
That's the important part; no matter how stupid the fights get, they don't matter as long as you still love eachother in the end. I understand that FH and I are fighting because of the stress of the wedding and I know that it'll definately tone down quite a bit once we're married, so that's why I'm not letting it get to me.
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Money seems to bethe root of all evil
We try not to get TOO worked up over it, but the money that is leaving our hands is ridiculous!
Laura1976
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i wouldn't say we fight but my biggest complaint is that he doesn't help out and just doesnt' think.
My FH went to the movies today by HIMSELF!!!!!!!!!!! I wouldn't mind, if there weren't 3 bags of laundry sitting by the front door!
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Any time you are spending such a large sum of money fights occur. It will all smooth over and be well worth the it come the day of your wedding!!
Just take a deep breath and relax!
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Posted by Laura1976
i wouldn't say we fight but my biggest complaint is that he doesn't help out and just doesnt' think.
My FH went to the movies today by HIMSELF!!!!!!!!!!! I wouldn't mind, if there weren't 3 bags of laundry sitting by the front door!
I am with you on this one!!!!!
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Posted by Laura1976
i wouldn't say we fight but my biggest complaint is that he doesn't help out and just doesnt' think.
My FH went to the movies today by HIMSELF!!!!!!!!!!! I wouldn't mind, if there weren't 3 bags of laundry sitting by the front door!
yeah, that would get me bent out of shape as well....
Aga
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we havent been fighting much lately, I am just too tired
February05
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Posted by Zena28
Everyone has been telling iti s going to get worse at the end.
it depends. FH and I have definately had our moments lately, BUT the weird thing is that Now, as we're getting soooo close, the little fights dissipate so quickly. Yes, we've had some bigger ones, but i notice this feeling lately, its hard to describe... but more of a 'Team' mentality, than me VS him. like 'Yeah, this is stressful, but we're in it together, and we need to be each others strength'. I feel almost like wedding planning is Made specifically to be stressful just so that you can earn that Rite of passage- like it tests you and challenges you as a couple, and in the end... is the greatest reward. ya just gotta keep that in mind when it gets really tough and trying.
if the good outweighs the bad-- you're doing fine
February05
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Just to add to that thought...
i actually thought it was more stressful and more fights in the beginning- when our focus was trying to start planning a wedding. Now that its so close, it feels like we're less concerned with the wedding planning, and more focused on Beginning our marriage. it seems like somewhere along the line, your priorities shift.... it did for us, anyway
littlebookworm4
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the dang bridal party for his side!!!
angelbear217
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Money, enough said!
Princess047
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Same problem... we fight over money - we spend every last cent on the wedding and it's getting to him, more that it is for me. I think guys just get stressed easier and since we live for this wedding we kinda just let things go quicker....
It's wierd he tries to ignor it sometimes like we don't have things to do but I have to keep bugging him to keep up eith things....it's hard but hopefully it will pass....
for all of us going through it.
jpavig
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I'm so glad I'm not the only one with these issues. I started to get scared because of the 'stupid' fights. It all started when we started planning. We do get over them quickly though. We just have to stay focused on the end result.
dukies1
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GROOMZILLO!!!! Is all I have to say.
Mrs_B
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GROOMZILLO!!!! Is all I have to say.
SPITSBRIDE
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We sometimes fight over money but most of our fights are over video games!!...lol
He can not stop playing those damn video games and sometimes forgets to make some time for me. I guess like they say, you have to love them for who they are so I am trying really hard to accept Star Wars Galaxies!..lol
