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What are you most nervous about?
jennbaby
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 12:34 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 12:34 PM
What are you most nervous about?
On your wedding day, which part are you most nervous about? I am not talking about dreams you've had, just what makes you nervous or worried?For me, I think it will be once those church doors open and everyone will be looking at me
MISHY
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 12:41 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 12:41 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
I STILL SOME MONTHS TO GO, BUT MY BIGGEST FEAR IN NOT THE COMMITTMENT TO MY FH (BECAUSE HE REALLY IS MY LOVE), BUT FOREVER, WHEN PEOPLE AROUND YOU DON'T LAST THROUGH THEIR MARRIAGE IT IS SCARY TO THINK OF HOW IS MY MARRIAGE GOING TO LAST.. THEN THE OTHER FACTOR IS I AM 24 AND FAMILY MEMBERS HAVE THE AUDACITY (SPELLING), TO SAY 'WHY ARE YOU MARRYING SO YOUNG', I TELL THEM THAT IT IS ONLY ME I DON'T HAVE EITHER PARENT AND LET ME TELL YOU 'YOU MATURE VERY QUICKLY FROM LIFE' JUST BE HAPPY FOR ME THAT I FOUND MY SOULMATE SO EARLY IN LIFE TO SHARE SO MUCH WITH:) BUT I AM CONFIDENT IN MY LIFE WITH MY FH, I DON'T EXPECT HIM TO CHANGE LIFE OTHER COUPLES SAY 'HE WILL CHANGE WHEN I MARRY HIM' BUT OTHER THEN THAT I CAN'T WAIT, THE OTHER THING IS SAYING MY VOWS WITH MY VOICE CRACKING FROM CRYING :)
dkga1026
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 12:42 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 12:42 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
i have not even begun to think about the whole center-of-attention bit...im stressed out about the vendors right now, primarily my band - i'd be VERY upset if the music wasnt good!!!
Nicole
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 12:55 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 12:55 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
The music, I hope the DJ does a good job. I just think if everybody is up dancing, then the wedding is a hit!!!
Jenny5150
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:11 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:11 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
My worries are the same as Nicole's.I guess you could say I'm also worried about the potential for a hurricane. The wedding will be on the Great South Bay and September is hurricane season. My FH's first wedding was during hurricane Bertha. Needless to say...the hurricane was a sign of things to come (kiddin'!)
Paiz
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:12 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:12 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
I'm nervous about being able to make it through the ceremony without crying the whole time!
wedinoct
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:13 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:13 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
Mishy I have simalar feelings as you. Glad to know I am not alone. I also know my FH is the one for me no matter how much I worry. I have a little over a month to go and I am the most nervous about the church, walking down the aisle and saying my vows. I hope I can keep my composure.
Karen62794
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:15 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:15 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
I'm nervous about the ceremony and if I can make it through the day without crying.I just want everything to be perfect.
abc7077
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:15 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:15 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
I am nervous about walking down the aisle with everyone watching me and then passing out in the middle of the ceremony. I shouldn't watch any of those funniest videos where people pass out, it makes me nervous I will do that too!! I am also worried that I will cry the whole way down the aisle and during the ceremony.
tracyann74
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:19 PM+

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Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:19 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
THE WEATHER !!!!(my ceremony and reception are outside!!! pray for sun... pray for sun...)
Sassy
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:20 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:20 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
To tell you the truth, I'm not nervous about anything, I'm sad my Mom will not be there (deceased) but I'm not nervous at all. I'm so happy to be getting married, I just can't wait. As for walking down the isle, I think of it as putting on a show!!!!!
And let the games begin
NovemberSue
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:20 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:20 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
I'm 100% sure FH is for me. I'm nervous about the church. All those eyes watching us. I'm also nervous about saying the vows. Our priest has such a thick accent, a lot of times we can't understand what he's saying.
jennbaby
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:24 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:24 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
i forgot to add rain.i know i can't control it but i really hope it doesn't rain. i'll even take cloudy weather but no rain please!
i guess whatever God gives me that day...
lili
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:33 PM+
Re: What are you most nervous about?
I agree rain.I am having an outdoor wedding at his house.
Rain would kill me. Everytime I think of rain and an outdoor wedding I think
of that picture, the one where Molly Ringwald got married in. Maybe also , snow.
I guess I would be very upset if we had an early snow fall.
Sassy
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:34 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:34 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
Rain is suppossed to be good luck or something, but you're right, I wouldn't like it to rain. Or be too hot either as a matter of fact. You never know with May . . .
charliesgirl
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:36 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 01:36 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
I'm just nervous in general. Everything seems to be going right for us. I'm afraid something bad is going to happen and it will be too close to the wedding date to change something. I am also nervous about flying for our honeymoon. The one thing I'm not nervous about is spending the rest of my life with my future hubby.
jennbaby
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 02:01 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 02:01 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
yes liz, May is a very funny month.
Mrs2Be
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 02:06 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 02:06 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
abc, I'm worried about fainting in church too! Recently they had a 'funny video' special and there was a whole section on brides and grooms passing out on the alter!I'm hypoglycemic, so I need to make sure I eat before the church!!
Not worried at all about marrying FH. He's the only thing I am 100% sure of!!
Not worried about rain...it's nature and completely out of our control.
evelynrtorres
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 02:10 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 02:10 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
Hmm...where do I start?!
Lemme see.... I worry about the ceremony going well, the weather & taking pictures outside, the videographer not getting lost, my hair coming out (God, please don't let it be a bad hair day!!!!)
I worry about not crying the whole night, and most of all, I want everyone to have a blast!!!!
Phew! I'm not so much nervous, I just can't wait until the day to get here! I pray that everything goes well and that everyone walks away with a smile on their face, that's all I ask!
abc7077
Posted: Sep 04, 2002 02:26 PM+

Posted: Sep 04, 2002 02:26 PM
Re: What are you most nervous about?
Mrs 2B I think I am a little hypogycemic too but when I get really nervous I get light headed, it won't be a pretty site. I think I am going to suck on a piece of candy or something, how attractive!!Welcome New Vendors
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