What are you NOT doing

oh yeah RB and FG

oh yeah

no bok toss or garter..
no giveaways ( its a wedding not a bat mitzvah)
and i wish i didnt have to have children..but with more than 2/3 being ooters its kinid of hard to ask them to travel across country and leave their kids behind

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Posted by DGoldfarb0776

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Posted by Mizzdimple

My RH has like a mini-store in the ladies room. so no B-room baskets.

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lol was just going to say the same thing about Russo's

Here's a short list of my NOT doing:

NO 'I DO' LETTERS
NO 'VOWS'
NO 'BUBBLES'
NO Bathroom baskets
NO DJ giveaways
NO cry packets
NO programs
NO children (except our FG)

Possibly no OOT bags and few other smaller things.

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Ditto...oh yeah, I'm still anti the 'Armpit Tunnel' that the bridal party makes at the reception. That's my story and i'm sticking to it!!

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Ditto...oh yeah, I'm still anti the 'Armpit Tunnel' that the bridal party makes at the reception. That's my story and i'm sticking to it!!

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i loooove it..thats too funny..i do not want that either..its cheeesy

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Posted by failurebydsign

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Posted by BbyJenny

Don't know if this counts, but we're not hiring a videographer. FH was deadset against it.

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interesting..i told FH that video meant more to me then who i marry..lol..he just said 'yes dear'

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lol thats funny. the video is more important than the photo albums for us.
we are not have a professional photo album!! take the photographers pro pics and doing legacy book from kodak unless it stinks then we go back to the photographer!!!

fh has little cousins and they all watch their mothers videos weekly- they think mom is a princess. i love that.

all the other stuff mentioned above we are not doing either! (cry packs, pedals, programs, bubbles, baskets ect )

no cry packs
no petal cones
no slipper baskets
no bathroom baskets
no rolls royce
no vienesse hour
no garter toss
no FG or RB

i am sure there will be more nos, that is all i can think of or now

No e-party
Probably no extra ceremonies (just the vows and ring exchange, sweet and simple)
No cry packs
No dollar dance
No throwing stuff at us or ribbons
No wish bowl
No VH
No chocolate fountain
No bathroom baskets
No table cameras
No specialty drinks
No jumping the broom
No dyeable shoes for anybody
No cake smashing
No group participating dances
No photo booths although it's such a cute idea I just don't have room in my budget!
No DJ giveaways
No Bok/garter toss (I may replace this with the anniversary dance instead)
No we do or mr/mrs letters
No programs.
No church.
No wedding march to walk down the aisle. Ive always loved Canon in D from HS orchestra!
No FG or RB or children.
No hiding before the ceremony, we are going to see each other and take pictures before.

I'm not sure about the recieving line but I will def. make rounds and visit everyone if not at the CH then at the reception.

I haven't decided whether to do OOT packs or other picture location. I am thinking of going to the planting fields.

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Posted by Ilovebriani

no cry packs
no petal cones
no slipper baskets
no bathroom baskets
no rolls royce
no vienesse hour
no garter toss
no FG or RB

i am sure there will be more nos, that is all i can think of or now

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oh yes also no eparty, no group dances

I have a bunch, but here are a few:

-No limos (im having everything at one place and staying next door)
-No Cheesy music at all whatsoever!
-no cheesy introductions or running through the arms
-no unedible favors (Fh's aunt is making brazillian candies)
-No tiara
-no florist centerpieces- Im having candles and bud vases and sticking in tulips
-no crosages! Using noregays
-no bok toss
-no garter toss
-no smashing the cake in eachothers faces (I don't want t be sticky!
-no traditional wedding music at ceremony- aka here comes the bride.
-forgot to add no DJ giveaways and having a toned down dj- I don't want them to be cheesy.

Thats all I can think of for now. I love how we all love weddings, but yet all of our weddings will be soooo different!!!

No 'I do' or 'We do' letters
No garter/bo-k tossing
No group participation dances
No DJ handouts
No petal cones
No cry packs
No bathroom baskets
No slipper baskets
No unity candle
No sand ceremony
No traditional vows (we're writing out own)
No receiving line
No ribbon wands
No bubbles
No dyeable shoes
No wedding march or 'here somes the bride'
No cake smashing

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Posted by graezie

no bridesmaids

no groomsmen

no cry packs

i am hoping NO DRAMA!!!!

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i second your last NO LOL

No cry packs ??
No bathroom baskets
No OOT bags
No DJ handouts (CHEEZEY)
No bubbles
No programs
No corny dances (Margarena, electric slide, EAKKK), lol

What are cry packs? You give them to your guests incase they start crying??? Doesnt the RH provide bathroom baskets??

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Posted by MPAS

What are cry packs? You give them to your guests incase they start crying??? Doesnt the RH provide bathroom baskets??

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Yes. They are little packets of tissues that you give out at the ceremony. Many RH provide bathroom baskets.

No 'I do' or 'We do' letters
No garter/bo-k tossing
No group participation dances
No OOT bags- i have like my aunt and uncle and thats it for OOT so nah!!
No DJ handouts
No cry packs
No programs
No slipper baskets
No unity candle
No sand ceremony
No ribbon wands
No bubbles
No wedding march or 'here somes the bride'
No kids at wedding *well besides my 9 yr old brother
No Mass at church- just a short and sweet ceremony
No flowers all over the church- just pew things which I want to make and maybe isle runner

still not sure if I want FH's cousins to be our RB and FG???

maybe bathroom baskets but i dont know haha