What do you expect your MOH and your bridesmaids to contribute/do for your wedding?
mattandjess2013
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My MOH is currently preggers with baby #4, so I'm not expecting her to do too much honestly! I know she has a lot on her plate, so I'll be happy if she's on time for everything. I told my BMs what I want to do for my bachelorette party, and I'm pretty sure that my mom will be doing my shower. I really just want them to show up, have some drinks with me, and keep me calm lol.
teacherteacher
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In my bridesmaids boxes, I had a piece of paper that explained to my BMs what I wanted - and part of it was this:
your job:
look & feel beautiful
hold something pretty
make sure that kevin is, in fact, at the other end of the aisle before I start walking
and know that this day couldn’t be complete without you
I don't need them to do much more than be there for moral support, and to give my hair & makeup people their complete and honest opinions to make sure I look awesome. Also, a fun bachelorette party wouldn't hurt, but that's something we've already started joking around about.
I do recognize that I'm fairly low-key, (i.e. they won't have matching dresses, shoes or accessories) but my goal is to have them be low-stress so we can enjoy the whole process together as it comes along.
mattandjess2013
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Posted by teacherteacher
make sure that kevin is, in fact, at the other end of the aisle before I start walking
vanillataco
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My only expectation of my bridesmaids is to be my little factory workers making candied apple favors.
4Everhisgirl
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I don't expect them to do anything....just enjoy the day with me!!!
Pretty_In_Pink
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Posted by vanillataco
My only expectation of my bridesmaids is to be my little factory workers making candied apple favors.
Thats cute!!!
JulesMarie27
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I agree with all of the above + plan a kick A$$ bachelorette party!! I think if you're a big DIYer, then I think MOH should be around to help with more (if she can) - just my opinion
teacherteacher
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Posted by JulesMarie27
I agree with all of the above + plan a kick A$$ bachelorette party!! I think if you're a big DIYer, then I think MOH should be around to help with more (if she can) - just my opinion
one of my girls offered to help with all my DIYs but I'm too much of a control freak to let anyone help haha
Sabellabride12
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I agree with everyone, I just want them there for support and to have font together. And the DIY stuff I think if they are also crafty they should help with that sort of stuff too. My sister is my MOH though and she lives 4 feet from my room so I'm constantly knocking on her door showing her pictures of things WE are going to make together haha.
FutureMrsSweeney
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I have a cross country BP - 2 BMs in NY, 1 BM in AZ, my MOH (older sister) is in AZ and currently pregnant, and my other MOH (little sister) is in FL and underage.
I don't expect anything from them, as of yet. I feel bad that my 2 BMs in NY are going to do way more than the other girls.
I'm not going to have a DOC, so I will probably ask everyone to check on things on the actual wedding day.
teacherteacher
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I'm not going to have a DOC, so I will probably ask everyone to check on things on the actual wedding day.
Forgot about this! I'm going to need our BMs/GMs/families to pick up all the stuff we had set up for the day-of since so much will have been made and bought by us for the wedding
Courtz
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your job:
look & feel beautiful
hold something pretty
make sure that kevin is, in fact, at the other end of the aisle before I start walking
and know that this day couldn’t be complete without you
