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Fall BZ 2009 Posted:

What comes first....

Hello Ladies!

Planning to have an engagement party in the summer b/c of nursing school. My question is....

Do the save the dates go out before engagement party invitations or after?

Or does it not matter?

Thanks for your help!
LegoBride Posted:

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Every eparty I went to they were given as part of the favor

little34 Posted:

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I did mine before the e-party only because we didn't want to keep answering the question 'when is the big day?'

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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STD's should go out anywhere from 8-12 months before the wedding... Most likely your e-party will be before then

LnF0405 Posted:

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I know people who send them with the invitation for the engagment party

JKFris09 Posted:

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My STD's were a part of my e-party favor

Alexandra1028 Posted:

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Ive always gotten them as the favor for the eparty

lookitscassie Posted:

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Posted by Fall BZ 2009

Hello Ladies!

Planning to have an engagement party in the summer b/c of nursing school. My question is....

Do the save the dates go out before engagement party invitations or after?

Or does it not matter?

Thanks for your help!



i gave mine out AT my engagement party
novia26 Posted:

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Posted by loy0405

I know people who send them with the invitation for the engagment party



ditto
Ann 52409 Posted:

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Posted by FutureMrsMolinaro

Every eparty I went to they were given as part of the favor


thats what i would do also
AugustBridein09 Posted:

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I would say the E-party does...but a lot of people give them as the favor.

My eparty was Aug 11th, 2007 and I'm not sending the STDs until Aug 1st, of 2008.
rocketsummer17 Posted:

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you can give them out as a tag on the eparty favor...or you can just mail them out after the party. Just dont make the STD a part of the favor...

kabo0831 Posted:

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you dont have to give out save the date for an eparty

Danyell48 Posted:

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Posted by JKFris09

My STD's were a part of my e-party favor



Thats what we're doing. Our plan is to have the eparty on May 31, 2008, which is exactly 1 year before. And for those who aren't coming we'll mail them around the same time.
longislandlibrarian Posted:

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my engagement party is MArch 8th.. but we are doing just small immediate family and bridal party for that.. which is about 50 people.. so we are mailing the save the dates to our whole guest list around the time of March 21st... a year to the date of ourw edding

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