We went all out...b/c a few months before the wedding...they told us they were adding extra money into the wedding fund... so I knew I wanted to get them a REALLY nice gift...
we got them a 36' VEGA flatscreen TV...my mom had always wanted one and their tv broke and she was going to get a less expensive one...so I wanted to make sure she got it...the price of the TV was nowhere near what they gave us for the wedding...so I was more than happy to do it...unfortunately their old tv broke 2 months before the wedding...so we gave it early...then at the RD we gave
all moms (DH has 3!! mom, nanny, and aunt that helped raise him) a picture frame from fortunoffs...with an IOU for a professional picture from the wedding...
then we had DH's mom smuggle Cuban cigars in from Mexico for my dad...