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What do people do to add that Spice?

Ronnie&Theresa Posted: Jun 12, 2003 03:33 PM+

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Posted: Jun 12, 2003 03:33 PM

What do people do to add that Spice?

to their relationship they once had when first dating.
I said..

always have fun and be able to be silly and LAUGH!

DaniRN Posted: Jun 12, 2003 03:35 PM+

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Posted: Jun 12, 2003 03:35 PM

Re: What do people do to add that Spice?

I agree! We are always acting silly and funny around each other. We always joke about how funny our kids are going to turn out since we are always goofing around

HeatherandNick Posted: Jun 12, 2003 03:36 PM+

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Posted: Jun 12, 2003 03:36 PM

Re: What do people do to add that Spice?

good point T - you have to laugh a lot

make a nice dinner
light candles
soft music in the bckground
bottle of wine
sexy lingerie
and a bubble bath with champagne and strawberries

cw0904 Posted: Jun 12, 2003 03:41 PM+

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Posted: Jun 12, 2003 03:41 PM

Re: What do people do to add that Spice?

I agree.
Just being yourself. Just b/c you are getting married doesn't mean you should become an old fart. People always tell me-you will change once you are married. You won't go out as much, you will lose some of your friends. UH no! If you let it happen it will happen. FH and I made a pact to not become old farts just b/c our titles changed.

mlp924 Posted: Jun 12, 2003 03:47 PM+

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Posted: Jun 12, 2003 03:47 PM

Re: What do people do to add that Spice?

We just bought a hot tub! Va Va Voom

nrvbrd Posted: Jun 12, 2003 03:50 PM+

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Posted: Jun 12, 2003 03:50 PM

Re: What do people do to add that Spice?

Keep your friendship with each other intact.

Me and my guy have known each other for over 10 years.

Here are my tips:

1. Always laugh
2. Find new things to do together
3. Keep yourself looking good
4. Find new ways to be romantic

cw0904 Posted: Jun 12, 2003 04:06 PM+

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Posted: Jun 12, 2003 04:06 PM

Re: What do people do to add that Spice?

HOT TUB!!! Can't wait when we buy a house. That is the first thing we plan on doing!!
We also still try to get away from it all when we can. We love travelling together.

Jordan Posted: Jun 12, 2003 04:24 PM+

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Posted: Jun 12, 2003 04:24 PM

Re: What do people do to add that Spice?

I agree...being fun & silly together is always spicey. Remembering the first kiss always burns me up. Just being ourselves and not setting expectations or conditions.

Suzanne Posted: Jun 12, 2003 04:52 PM+

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Posted: Jun 12, 2003 04:52 PM

Re: What do people do to add that Spice?

whips chains, clamps...J.K

Jordan Posted: Jun 12, 2003 04:55 PM+

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Posted: Jun 12, 2003 04:55 PM

Re: What do people do to add that Spice?

Hand cuffs are fun.

cluelessbride Posted: Jun 12, 2003 04:55 PM+

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Posted: Jun 12, 2003 04:55 PM

Re: What do people do to add that Spice?

Like you said Theresa, Laugh and be silly!

Also, do things on your own sometimes, see your friends and don't expect perfection.

Be creative and spontaneous!

bethsiar Posted: Jun 12, 2003 04:55 PM+

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Posted: Jun 12, 2003 04:55 PM

Re: What do people do to add that Spice?

This is a great thread, I was just trying to think of they way we could bring back that just met/dating feeling since our 4 year anniversary is Tuesday.

Any suggestions? I'm trying so hard to remember things we used to do when we were all lovey-dovey that we stopped doing, but I'm stuck!

dgtlsunshine Posted: Jun 12, 2003 05:11 PM+

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Posted: Jun 12, 2003 05:11 PM