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What do you call your fmil

Original post by snowcutie82

Now that u're engaged do you call your FMIL something different that when u were dating?

Do you call her by her first name, Mrs. Last Name, mom...etc.

are you planning on calling her something else once you are married???

just wondering
LuvMyAlfonse Posted:

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Mrs. Last Name - after we're married I'll call her mom...

LuvMyAlfonse Posted:

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Posted by MikeandJess

I call her whore, but not to her face.



Jess! You are so funny, I always laugh out loud when I read your posts.
MikeandJess Posted:

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Posted by LuvMyAlfonse


Posted by MikeandJess

I call her whore, but not to her face.



Jess! You are so funny, I always laugh out loud when I read your posts.



thanks jenn! I'm honored because I do the same thing when I read your posts. In fact, I was talking about you at work today because I received my avon mascara and put it on and asked people if they want to hump me. I know that's not how it was supposed to work (I was supposed to hump myself) but some of them said yes. Anyway, I fessed up that it was your line and not mine.
karen6474 Posted:

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Posted by beachbum05

Mrs. L



same here!!
karen6474 Posted:

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Posted by MikeandJess

I call her whore, but not to her face. Totally kidding, I call her by her first name well his stepmother but his real mother I've been calling mom for awhile she gets mad if I call her anything else.



Jess- that is toooo funny!!
TheFutureMrsM Posted:

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Posted by Soon2BMrsD

my parents call my grandparents mom and dad both sets.. as well as FIL they call their parents mom and dad.. so im sure i will end up doing it with time!



This is the same with me...i just feel its a nice tradition to carry on.

I know alot of girls, think its doesnt feel right or that FMIL hasnt earned that title. but remember she IS a mother too. a mother to your FH
snowcutie82 Posted:

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Posted by ant n tilde

i call his parents by their first names ( although i DO avoid it at all costs. ,. . big fan of the HEY YOU!)

i plan on calling them mom and dad after the wedding but its going to be really hard. i get sick to my stomach when i try to say it - i love them, but its just hard

my mom says i should just start now and get it over with but i cant bring myself to do it

i call the rest of his family whatever he calls them ( uncle frank, Nan, Grandpa etc)



i feel the same way!!!! i dunno why though. i feel like if i call her mom then like fh's sister might get offended cuz its HER mom not mine etc. and she IS the only daughter and now im there etc...

i over think things too much!
eunicsd006 Posted:

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Posted by ShanonandSteve

i dont really call her anything...

that probably sounds bad, but i never really need to call her to get her attention, and i dont call her on the phone.

if i HAVE to call her something..i use her first name.

it will probably stay that way after we are married.
i doubt i will call her 'mom'







same here i dont call her anything ....same thing with ffil.....i have a mom so no i wont be calling her mom.....
tdebe Posted:

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I don't call her anything. I think I said her name once by accident

MillerFord742008 Posted:

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I call my them Mrs. Last name and Mr. last name! Sorry I'm southern so I have respect even though they totally wish I would call them by their first names but I can I feel wrong. SO now their use to it.

I think when we get married I'ma still call them by their last name until we have children then I'ma call them grandma and grandpa.

I think it's funny cause they see me as their daughter or one of the kids
megzzie Posted:

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I call his parents Mr. Last Name and Mrs. Last Name, but after we're married, I'll call them Mom and Dad.

tara08 Posted:

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Posted by MikeandJess

I call her whore, but not to her face. Totally kidding, I call her by her first name well his stepmother but his real mother I've been calling mom for awhile she gets mad if I call her anything else.




LMAOOO As soon as I read this I was thinking I call her b@#tch... lol but i guess thats just my situation...
MillerFord742008 Posted:

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Posted by tara08


Posted by MikeandJess

I call her whore, but not to her face. Totally kidding, I call her by her first name well his stepmother but his real mother I've been calling mom for awhile she gets mad if I call her anything else.




LMAOOO As soon as I read this I was thinking I call her b@#tch... lol but i guess thats just my situation...



Julybride08 Posted:

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Posted by MikeandJess

I call her whore, but not to her face. Totally kidding, I call her by her first name well his stepmother but his real mother I've been calling mom for awhile she gets mad if I call her anything else.

Julybride08 Posted:

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I call them by there first name. But if she dosen't answer me I yell mom....lol I'll probably call them mom and dad after the wedding. I do call all his aunts and uncles Zia & ZIo. and his nonna too. He calls my parents by there first name. But he calls my grandpa, grandpa!

Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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Im very traditional..so last name..

SoontobeMrsH Posted:

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her first name

jgl Posted:

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Posted by cherish83

I call her by her first name. Maybe when we're married I'll call her mom, i doubt it though. I call his grandparents grandma and grandpa though



same here.
TakingtheLongWay Posted:

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Posted by ShanonandSteve

i dont really call her anything...

that probably sounds bad, but i never really need to call her to get her attention, and i dont call her on the phone.

if i HAVE to call her something..i use her first name.

it will probably stay that way after we are married.
i doubt i will call her 'mom'



Couldn't have said it better myself!!
ZeppsGirl Posted:

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I call them by their last names...they are so loving to me...but how do I even get to mention the topic of going more personal with their names?
Maybe when we have children then I can call then what my children do!

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