when people dont send in their RSVP and when you call them they say 'i dont know'. my instinct is to say then you cant come but FH is going to tell me I am mean. We already have like 5 ppl who RSVPd like this.
rengor
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I would tell them ' I need to know by _____ ' and give them a couple of days to decide yes or no. If they can't decide by then, it's their loss!
AwaitingAugust
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Posted by rengor
I would tell them ' I need to know by _____ ' and give them a couple of days to decide yes or no. If they can't decide by then, it's their loss!
ITA
or another option is to say 'well i'm going to put you down as a 'no' for now, but if that changes, please let me before ___'
summerof2010
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I agree with considering them a no, and telling them that. Dont risk paying for their plate and costing yourself money.
And thats so rude of people.
cateydee
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we should have a rude people contest after all our weddings. prizes go to the most outrageous story and most overall rude wedding guests
JenBill61210
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ugh i totally hear you. i would tell them you are marking them down as a no since you need to give your RH an accurate count. I am having this problem too but w/ single guests waiting on bringing someone w/ them to the wedding.. i just told them i was putting them down as single since they couldn't guarantee they could bring someone w/ them. its better to be safe!
joctorre
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FMIL just told me about someone who responded (not to our wedding) with a
'0 guests will attend
because you didn't invite our children'
Well, good, then. Stay the F home!!!
JenBill61210
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FMIL just told me about someone who responded (not to our wedding) with a
'0 guests will attend
because you didn't invite our children'
Well, good, then. Stay the F home!!!
what!?! unbelievable.
marinai7
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FMIL just told me about someone who responded (not to our wedding) with a
'0 guests will attend
because you didn't invite our children'
Well, good, then. Stay the F home!!!
WOW!!
barbtony
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Posted by joctorre
FMIL just told me about someone who responded (not to our wedding) with a
'0 guests will attend
because you didn't invite our children'
Well, good, then. Stay the F home!!!
Wouldn't surprise me if I got at least one like that!
Pacie
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I would tell them ' I need to know by _____ ' and give them a couple of days to decide yes or no. If they can't decide by then, it's their loss!
i agree
dctead
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I Know I'll have at least one who will not come cause I didn't invite the kids...
Hey.. if they want to bring them.. they can pay for them too!!
