So we went out Sat night becuase a friend was having a boat ride/cruise. We were with a few people and since i was not feeling well I sat most of the night with DH taking care of me. Well he likes music and since I was away from the DJ I told him to go closer so he could listen..he did this periodically. Well this little 'hoochie..u had to see the dress.....must have missed the wedding band on his finger and had the nerve to whisper to his brother'where did your cute friend go...so my wonderful BIL loudly said..ohhhhhh you mean her HUSBAND..he went to get his WIFE a drink. She knew he was with me..A. she saw us holding hands and kissing in front her face. B. He ignored her when she tried to dance with him... So she gave me dirty looks until I loudly said...Honey stop kissing me..people may be getting jealous.
He can handle himself but I know some women who would have pushed her overboard. What do you do when the other half gets hit on?
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It depends on the extent of it. Once they know we are together and start to disrespect me the evil biatch in me will come out. If it is done in fun, I don't care because I know he would never do anything.
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I have not been in this situation yet.
I must applaud you on your behavior with the hoochie. I cannot honestly say I would have reacted with such restraint.
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I go over and kiss him or something! Some women are so oblivious!
embee
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When DH and I used to work together there was a girl who really liked DH. Used to cook for him, leave him presents, invite him out to the movies. I really didn't know what to do about the situation, as we were only BF and GF at the time. It used to make me so angry, but I had to be 'civil' to her because we worked together. In the end I knew that I was the better woman, and Rob came home to me every night, but thinking about it still burns me up. People should respect the fact that a person is with someone!!!
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Posted by Kriss2c
I have not been in this situation yet.
I must applaud you on your behavior with the hoochie. I cannot honestly say I would have reacted with such restraint.
Me too! I would have pushed her overboard!
Honestly though you can't balme her... your DH is a hottie When your husband looks that good you have to sort of expect girls to be drawn to him. But she should have left him alone when she found out he was married escpeially since you were right there.
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to be honest.. my FW laughed it off. At a Halloween party in the Village last year I was dressed like a 'pimp'.. and wouldn't you know all these 'hoes' just started hitting on me.
Some of the girls were very pretty but my attitude is, 'You're about 2 years too late!'
My attitude is the same as hers..
FW feels if a guy would stray so easily.. he ain't worth it. And she's right. And I think that's 100% correct.. and vice versa.
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Honestly though you can't balme her... your DH is a hottie When your husband looks that good you have to sort of expect girls to be drawn to him. But she should have left him alone when she found out he was married escpeially since you were right there
Julz lol. Yeah girls are attracted to him and some are bold. Thank heavens he is such a good guy. He doesnt fall for women because of looks. And he definitely does not like hoochies lol.
And your hubby is cute too so trust me your turn is coming..and I know he will be good..you can see his love in your pics.
OG I agree with FW. If a person strays so easy or at all..NOT WORTH IT.
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Don't know what your hubby looks like, but an attractive person will get looked at. My FH swears nobody hit on him or showed any interest until people saw us together. Girls are hoochies! I know he'd never do such a thing, so I trust him.
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My husband and I had gone through this alot since we both had bartended at the same place. The bars are across from each other with only a dance fooor seperating us so wed literally be facing each other all night. When it was busy it was hard to see but still...
It was horrible! We were only engaged at the time so there were no rings. Lets just say we hopped over the bar quite a few times when we thought someone was moving in on the territory. We both wind up quitting- it was stressful especially in that atmosphere. Picture drunk girls flirting with him at 3 am to get drinks how annoying!!!!! and drunk guys flirting with me until 4am because they dont leave until closing!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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i usually just laugh it off. besides he always comes right over to me and kisses me to show the stupid girl he's taken. one time, i actually thought it was hilarious though bc the woman was 30 yrs older than us and wasted. we were on a very choppy water taxi ride and got seated across fr each other and she kept trying to grab his knee (bc it was bumpy - yeah right!) and calling him 'cutie'. he needed rescuing but i was just laughing too hard
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I would have laughed. This has happened o occassion and i get a kick out of it....Why get upset..you trust your husband right?...in all honesty i usually feel bad for girls that have to dress like that...
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I would have laughed. This has happened o occassion and i get a kick out of it....Why get upset..you trust your husband right?...in all honesty i usually feel bad for girls that have to dress like that...
Oh goodness, I definitely trust him. We are like frick and frak according to my mom..when u see one..the other is close by. and yeah I think its sad when someone dresses like a hoochie for attention. DH said the hair on her legs scared him..she could have at least shaved.
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I would have laughed. This has happened o occassion and i get a kick out of it....Why get upset..you trust your husband right?...in all honesty i usually feel bad for girls that have to dress like that...
Oh goodness, I definitely trust him. We are like frick and frak according to my mom..when u see one..the other is close by. and yeah I think its sad when someone dresses like a hoochie for attention. DH said the hair on her legs scared him..she could have at least shaved.
OMG
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I have this 'girl' that works with DH....she is always all over his sh!t....she would invite him out when she knew I was working (with other people frm work), and would leave if I showed up.
I did not show so such resrtaint one night...it got very ugly...ever since then all his co-workers are afraid of me
I tottaly trust DH, but I knew he wouldn't say something...it wasn't the hitting on that p!ssed me off, it was the complete & utter lack of respect for me.
If it was just some random girl being a hooker, I probably would laugh it off & feel a little bad for her lack of self-esteem, but if it is someone I know, then that's a different story
I have this 'girl' that works with DH....she is always all over his sh!t....she would invite him out when she knew I was working (with other people frm work), and would leave if I showed up.
If it was just some random girl being a hooker, I probably would laugh it off & feel a little bad for her lack of self-esteem, but if it is someone I know, then that's a different story
Yes i do agree....that situation is completely different and i would knock her out! Or find someone to help me knock her out!
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Yes i do agree....that situation is completely different and i would knock her out! Or find someone to help me knock her out!
Thanks... I felt bad for about 30 seconds.... there was a definate beating involved
Yes i do agree....that situation is completely different and i would knock her out! Or find someone to help me knock her out!
Thanks... I felt bad for about 30 seconds.... there was a definate beating involved
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Definitely that deserved a kick As$. Being totally disrespectful is WRONg. Luckily DH works with mostly guys and the women there are much Older and to be quite honest not at all attractive.
My 'friends' husband used to work for MTV and he used to get hit on all the time by his 'male' boss. He was the artsy type that liked to experiment and she was scared that he would want to try it..even if once so she made him quit.
