What do you do when...

Goldi1021 Posted: Sep 04, 2005 12:43 AM

What do you do when...

...you send out STD's and someone either calls or emails you saying they can't come to the wedding? Do you send them an invitation anyway? I wasn't sure and I would certainly not want to obligate someone to give a gift. Or should I consider myself lucky that my guest list is going down? Any thoughts?

PegaLega Posted: Sep 04, 2005 12:46 AM

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You should see if that could possibly change...like do they have another wedding out of state-or do they never ever get that day off from work....you know what I mean??

evnme Posted: Sep 04, 2005 12:46 AM

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i got invitations to 2 weddings that i had told the brides ahead of time that i couldnt go...

ETA: your guest would probably be insulted not to get an invite.
i have a few guests that i know cant or wont come to my wedding, but i'm sending them invites anyway..

Goldi1021 Posted: Sep 04, 2005 12:47 AM

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The guest's wife is due to have a baby or will be about to have one.

PegaLega Posted: Sep 04, 2005 12:54 AM

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ahh that may not change too much...I would send an invite and maybe they change their minds...most new moms want to stay with their babies...but I would send them one anyway
HTH

hmpena Posted: Sep 04, 2005 12:54 AM

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I would still send the invite anyway.

SomethingBlu Posted: Sep 04, 2005 12:55 AM

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Posted by hmpena

I would still send the invite anyway.

I did...

And Hollie...do we never sleep?

Goldi1021 Posted: Sep 04, 2005 12:57 AM

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I think the late nighters should have their own thread. I mean I am singing the high praises of CHEESE on the 06 boards!

SomethingBlu Posted: Sep 04, 2005 01:00 AM

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Posted by Goldi1021

I think the late nighters should have their own thread. I mean I am singing the high praises of CHEESE on the 06 boards!

Can you believe I feel really awkward posting there 'just because'? I'll post if I have something to contribute, otherwise I have hijack guilt.

hmpena Posted: Sep 04, 2005 01:01 AM

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Posted by SomethingBlu

Posted by hmpena

I would still send the invite anyway.

I did...

And Hollie...do we never sleep?

I don't know sweetie. It always seems to be me, you, and Leslie late at night!

SomethingBlu Posted: Sep 04, 2005 01:03 AM

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Posted by hmpena
I don't know sweetie. It always seems to be me, you, and Leslie late at night!

Well my DH just put one of our wine bottles (our wedding favors) in to chill...I'm guessing he wants me to get off the computer (and knows wine is the only way to do it?! ) but I'm sick with a throat and ear infection, so how will that work?

Goldi1021 Posted: Sep 04, 2005 01:05 AM

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Posted by SomethingBlu

Posted by hmpena
I don't know sweetie. It always seems to be me, you, and Leslie late at night!

Well my DH just put one of our wine bottles (our wedding favors) in to chill...I'm guessing he wants me to get off the computer (and knows wine is the only way to do it?! ) but I'm sick with a throat and ear infection, so how will that work?

Wow. I thought that once you are married, you dont have to get a woman drunk to BLEEP her!

blushingbride2006 Posted: Sep 04, 2005 01:06 AM

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nahhh
i wouldnt send it. i know people aren't coming and they aren't going to get a real invite

SomethingBlu Posted: Sep 04, 2005 01:08 AM

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Posted by Goldi1021
Wow. I thought that once you are married, you dont have to get a woman drunk to BLEEP her!

Apparently when she's sick and you're a sicko you do have to!

My hubby is so sweet...he really cares about my health.

BKtoLI Posted: Sep 04, 2005 01:09 AM

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Don't forget me, I am part of the night owl crew also!!!

FH is always pissed at me for staying up late but he fails to realize that I could be in bed at 11pm and I would just lie there awake for hours!!

Goldi1021 Posted: Sep 04, 2005 01:10 AM

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It isnt late night without Janna. We should all meet at some 24 hour market or something.

BKtoLI Posted: Sep 04, 2005 01:11 AM

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How about 7-11 or Dunkin Donuts?? Or even better yet some diner?

Then we could order mozzarella sticks and feed our cheese cravings!!!

SomethingBlu Posted: Sep 04, 2005 01:11 AM

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Well, I'm about to get drunk and besides a sick drunk girl from Brooklyn isn't necessarily someone that should be out on a Sat night.

hmpena Posted: Sep 04, 2005 01:11 AM

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Posted by SomethingBlu

Posted by Goldi1021
Wow. I thought that once you are married, you dont have to get a woman drunk to BLEEP her!

Apparently when she's sick and you're a sicko you do have to!

My hubby is so sweet...he really cares about my health.

Sasha,

At least he is TRYING to romance you... he still wants you throat infection and all! How sweet!

February05 Posted: Sep 04, 2005 01:13 AM

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Posted by BKtoLI

How about 7-11 or Dunkin Donuts?? Or even better yet some diner?

Then we could order mozzarella sticks and feed our cheese cravings!!!

now im not only awake, but also craving Donuts