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what do you guys think....

CaseyNTim Posted:

what do you guys think....

So I had recieved a quote from a few bag pipers but when I told my FMIL that, she said she knew someone that she could ask and let me know So i was like o thats great!!

Then she said they had the date open and everything, and I said how much would it cost? And she said to invite them to the wedding...

Okay they have NO idea who FH or I am, and I understand she thinks thats saving me money, buts it not, if they come thats $275 dollars when I found bag pipers for less expensive. And I dont know I think its weird I am cutting corners to not invite my friends who dont have real boyfriend or girlfriends they aren't allowed to hate dates, and things like that so that I can make it work and then here I am inviting two randoms, when it doesn't really save me money? You guys think I am being a brat? I am so thankful, it's just I am unsure of how to tell his mother that its really NOT saving me money if I invite them?
mrsdraskin2009 Posted:

Re: what do you guys think....

So instead of paying them cash, they want to be invited to the wedding?

Unless I *knew* them, even in a roundabout fashion, I would not invite them instead of paying them. And especially since you found pipers for less than the cost of their plates.
CaseyNTim Posted:

Re: what do you guys think....

exactly isn't that kind of weird? The woman only works with FMIL, so she doesn't know anyone? I don't know the whole situation just seems weird to me.

FutureCap Posted:

Re: what do you guys think....

Do you know how much they would be if you just hired them? Even if it would be the same price, I can totally understand why you would not want to invite them, it would be strange paying $275 for people you don't know to be at your wedding all day when you are not inviting others that you really want there. I don't think you are being a brat at all!

MrsC2010 Posted:

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hmm thats kinda strange. you should tell your friend that you have already had to cut friends so you don't want to invite random bagpipers to your wedding. see how much it would cost to use them without inviting them to the wedding.

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