My brother is moving to Connecticut from uptown Manhatten. I am in suffolk.
He is renting a truck tomorrow and loading it up to drive to his new house, and asked me to help 2 days ago, and I said yes. I really do not want to, because: A. I am going there next weekend to help him paint b. I will have to get a ride to the train station from someone so I do not have to leave my car c. I will be stuck in connecticut with no ride home except the ferry, and someone will have to drive to Pt. Jeff to pick me up d. I have a bunch of cleaning and stuff I was planning on doing this weekend.
I told him last night I was not coming, and he got all ****y. Am I required to go? He is my brother.... His wife is almost 9 months prego and cannot help.
alina
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I would go... And I would be upset if I were your brother and you didn't go
shelzyp
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I would help if it was my bro and I ahd told him I would. Is there someone you could find to pick you up?
Sunny
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I told him I was going to go after he got mad, and he siad 'forget it- I don't need your help'. So I have to decide if I should just get on a train and show up. I could find someone to pick me up. You are right- I should go....I was hoping someone would tell me not to!
alina
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Sunny, he probably called you as a last resort b/c none of his other buddies wanted to or offered to help. I really would try to make up and help him out, esp. with a preggo wife...
Sunny
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I don't think he asked me as a last resort. I called him about something else and I think he just thought of it. I think he really just wants company...I am going to go.
eroxgirl
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I think you should go...I'd be mad if you told me yes and then told me no, even though I can understand why you don't want to.
HeatherandNick
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I'd go. Family is family. Then he will owe you a BIG favor!!!!