I just got a text from my cousin whose wedding Im in and she making us all get the same shoe as her SIL who just bought shoes for another wedding.
I dunno maybe its just me and Im so laid back but I would never force anyone to wear the same type of shoe. I wasnt planning on getting a 3 inch heel which these are since the last time I wore 3 inch heels to a wedding the shoes were off in 2 second and um I dont like the shoe.
Dramatica
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I dunno going to catholic school all my life I knew what it was like to have to be forced to wear something I didn't like..so I wouldn't do it to my BMs
Rosalind_75
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i think its stupid but thats just me.
i loveeeeeeeee high heels cause im super short.
i didnt make my girls do it. all i asked is that they wear silver.
my moh loves high heels but my sil hates them. they're adults im sure they know what works on their feet.
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I don't think its fair to ask all the girls to wear the same shoes only because a lot of girls prob arent comfortable in a High heel like 3 inches, Some girls dont wear heels at all so they would be better with a lower heel or flats. The only thing I plan to ask is that they all wear the same color shoes, I dont care what style they wear I just want them all to be comfortable. I also plan to maybe buy them all flip flops for the reception
AngnShaun
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im not a fan, but i have had to do it for every other wedding ive been in...
futurestevens
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i'm not doing that to my girls....they can wear whatever shoe they want, as long as they're the same color. some people are not comfortable in high high heels and i think it's unreasonable to ask someone to be in pain the day of your wedding!
WeezyGirl2354
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I dont like it - for someone like me who has really big feet (super wide) its REALLY hard for me to find shoes. Like really hard - i cant just go into a store and fine a pair that fits.
So for that reason I just dont think its fair to ask the BM to get the same shoes. I am having short dresses to and i wont as my BM to do that.
I have seen it and it does kinda look cute if the shoes are kinda funky and fun - but i think thats a lot to ask of the BM.
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For my cousins wedding we did everything the same.. and i was the one being B*tchy about the shoes becuz i only wear 4inch and higher and our shoes were 3 inches... We did everything the same here is the picture.
For my cousins wedding we did everything the same.. and i was the one being B*tchy about the shoes becuz i only wear 4inch and higher and our shoes were 3 inches... We did everything the same here is the picture.