What do you think about this....

OctGroom Posted: Feb 16, 2004 02:50 PM

What do you think about this....

Would you want to know about why a past romance went wrong and look up past loves to find out the exact reason why years later?

(This was just on TV.)

BMD'sPeanut Posted: Feb 16, 2004 03:08 PM

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If you're going to do something like that do it in therapy, not in actual life.

OctGroom Posted: Feb 16, 2004 03:23 PM

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Posted by CIMINOK

If you're going to do something like that do it in therapy, not in actual life.

I hear ya.. it's true though.. a woman made a full length movie about this subject. It's called Pullout. I think she wasted her time to be honest. Of course there may have been other motives.. but I digress.

skew Posted: Feb 16, 2004 04:18 PM

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i don't get it. can't she figure it out on her own? unless all her ex's just up and left w/ no explaination, why would she feel compelled to have to do this (not to mention the emabarrassment)?

BMD'sPeanut Posted: Feb 16, 2004 04:20 PM

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Posted by skew

i don't get it. can't she figure it out on her own? unless all her ex's just up and left w/ no explaination, why would she feel compelled to have to do this (not to mention the emabarrassment)?

hence my suggestion to figure it out in therapy.

RedHead Posted: Feb 16, 2004 05:45 PM

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I don't believe it is necessary...I have always known why a relationship has ended, I didn't need to talk to an ex to figure that out

mrswask Posted: Feb 16, 2004 05:51 PM

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The only relationship I ever had that I really didn't know why it ended...we got back together 6 weeks after we broke up - and in 5/12 months - I'm marrying him!

janwinterbridejoy Posted: Feb 16, 2004 07:17 PM

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thats great!!!

wenndypoo Posted: Feb 17, 2004 12:48 AM

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In theory it sounds cool, but in real life I think it would be a bit kooky!

I had the opportunity recently to talk with my very first boyfriend after 16 years. We did talk about what happened, and it was very cool. Not that there were any hard feelings after all this time, but it was nice to be able to talk about what went on between us, say 'I'm sorry', and 'I forgive you'.

Sheesh, there isn't enough time in the world for me to look up all my scorned ex's!