1. you cant stand!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Cause i really cant stand her for many reasons 2. fh and her had a 'thing' years ago when they were like 16 and 19 (before i was ever in the picture) it was a kid thing, so its not a big deal 3. who continues to flirts with fh EVEN in front of me, but i hear all the time, 'this is just the way she is'
there was a situation at a BBQ where she was flirting in with fh SOOO MUCH, it just bothers me, FH gets away from her, and doesnt really let it happen but she still tries, i know, its pathetic, BUT they are still 'friends' they have similiar friends, is the sister of his best friend, and groomsman, after this incident I swore to fh that she will no longer be invited to parties/functions at our home, etc...because she is disrespectful he agreed !!!!
but, when we were doing out invite list he said i really feel bad not inviting H***** .... i looked at him, rolled my eyes and didnt say anything, we moved on! but i know it is going to come up again and i need to give him a definite answer, he is basically going to respect whatever i want him to do, but i want to do the right thing your opinions!
cantwait2bewed
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I have this issue to except the girl that he is inviting respects me. At first i was like i am not inviting her but I remembered that FH is marrying me and not her, so if she wants to be mad about it let her. It's my day to shine and not hers. She came to our engagement party and I was cool with it. So if FH really wants her to come just invite her as long as she respects you. If she is flirting in a bad way like touching him etc. then do not invite her.
july06bride
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Posted by JanuaryBride06
Even though she won't have the chance to get close to FH at the wedding, I still wouldn't invite the b****.
My rule: if you have been 'involved' in some with way with the bride or the groom, you don't get to come to the wedding.
I like that rule!
(mind you there wasnt anything 'extremely sexual' if you know what i mean)
mtdr1106
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Posted by MrsStefan
I say dont't invite her. NOT becaue you dont want her around, but more becasue she is disrespectful to you and your relationship with FH when she flirts with him. Do you really want someone at your wedding who is not truly there to see you marry the man of your dreams?? I say 'NO'
i agree with this. i feel weddings are so expensive and such a special day - and people say things like you won't even notice her - but when you can't stand someone - you notice EVERYTHING about them. if it is at all possible (meaning you can get a believable excuse together and can hold your own in an arguement with FH about it) then do not invite her. stick to your guns.
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Posted by MrsStefan
I say don't invite her. NOT becaue you dont want her around, but more becasue she is disrespectful to you and your relationship with FH when she flirts with him. Do you really want someone at your wedding who is not truly there to see you marry the man of your dreams?? I say 'NO'
I absolutely agree, very well said!! Honestly, knowing these kinds of messed up girls, there's nothing stopping her from flirting with your FH on the very day of your wedding. You don't want that on your mind, there's no reason to include her just bc she's some guy's lil sister!!
As for people being involved with others. We're inviting FH's ex-wife to the wedding bc we know she'd like to see their daughter as a jrBM. They've both moved on and she's genuinely happy for us. She's seeing someone else now too and I truly hope they come to the ceremony and stay for the reception. It's not about who slept with who but about the maturity and respect between the involved parties!!
