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What do you think is more important?

dino1109 Posted:

What do you think is more important?

Falling in love with someone and probably not having any children

Falling in love with someone b/c they want children too

I hope this question makes some sense- I know its vague...
Snowboardgirl Posted:

Re: What do you think is more important?

I don't understand the question.
LadyPrincess Posted:

Re: What do you think is more important?

Falling in Love & prob not having children

MegLehner Posted:

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I dont really understand the question either?

suven Posted:

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actually, I don't think I get it either...

Pookiesangel Posted:

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Posted by chris&james

Falling in Love & prob not having children



I agree, FH & I def want children, but it's in God's hands..so I would pick falling in love and not having children as the more important one.
september2004 Posted:

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falling in love does not equal marriage necessarily...

i personally would not marry someone who is not interested in trying to have children.
Sunny Posted:

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Is it with someone who can't have children, or doesn't want children?

samsbride Posted:

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a little confused. Also - I think it depends on how each person feels about children. I would be devastated if I never had children. BUT they do not have to be my children by birth. I have always wanted to adopt because there are so many children in other countries who do not have parents. Ironically, my dr said I am going to have a tough time having kids on my own. It's possible but I might have some issues. I'm upset but not devastated. We'd be happy to adopt so we are lucky we are compatible on this issue. If not - there could be problems.

Xelindrya Posted:

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I agree. You can be in love true deep everlasting love and NOT have a marriage.

I want kids. But then again Im willing to adopt. If my hubby didnt want children and I loved him enough, I am pretty sure I'd marry him anyway. Im also sure Id talk him to having a child but if not, oh well.

I wouldnt give up on a marriage because we didnt have children (didn't want to or could not)
butterfly20 Posted:

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to me i think having children is important, if my parter cannnot have children then we can adopt...

nferrandi Posted:

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If it was an issue of not being able to conceive, I would adopt. If it was an issue of the man I love never wanting children, I don't think I could marry him. Some of you will diagree, and some of you wil feel the same way. There's nothing more inportant to me than having children and I couldn't marry someone who didn't want to have babies. JMHO

skew Posted:

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Does 'Falling in love w/ someone because they want children' = it was discussed and because 'they' want to have children it was a huge factor as to WHY i fell in love?

i am confused
dino1109 Posted:

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I am sorry ladies for the confusion- and then my computer started acted up- now I cant elaborate because FI is lurking around. I promise tomorrow I will explain better but some of you got it anyway... Look for an update tomorrow.

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