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What do you think of this idea...really long, sorry.

JAAMS Posted:

What do you think of this idea...really long, sorry.

When I was in high school and through most of college, I had a very, very close group of friends...when FH & I started dating, they caused SO much drama and hurt me very, very badly.

Through the years, a couple of them came around and a few of them things are still terrible with. Of the few that came around awhile ago, 3 of them are in my BP. The ones that things are terrible with...obviously they are not even invited at this point.

There's 8 of them (4 girls, 4 guys) who until recently, things were just OK with. Now we talk a lot, hang out a lot....they should've been in my BP...but with everything that happened, they weren't. At this point, dresses have already been ordered and I already have 10 girls...so I think it would be quite a bit much...

What do you think of me asking the four guys to be ushers and get everyone to their seats and the right side of the room, and ask the girls to hand out programs and then list them as honorary BMs in the program?

Am I supposed to ask them the same way I asked the rest of the BP, or just shoot them a facebook message and ask?
StaceyWill Posted:

Re: What do you think of this idea...really long, sorry.

I think it's a very sweet idea. I would ask them in person.

EmiandKensDay Posted:

Re: What do you think of this idea...really long, sorry.

How do you usually communicate?

I would do it over the phone.
tmcnair414 Posted:

Re: What do you think of this idea...really long, sorry.

I think thats a great idea, I would call or ask them in person.

JAAMS Posted:

Re: What do you think of this idea...really long, sorry.

shameless BUMPage

vv117 Posted:

Re: What do you think of this idea...really long, sorry.

i agree with the other girls. do it over the phone or in person.

also i'm not sure if i would list them as 'honorary BPs.' i can't explain why but it seems odd to me. i would add in a special thank you message for them in the program. one of my friends did that for me...it was sweet.


ETA: i think it's a really nice way to incorporate them! and i'm sure they'll be flattered.
SoontobeMrs.Brown Posted:

Re: What do you think of this idea...really long, sorry.

I think its a great idea - I would call them or ask in person though. FB too impersonal.

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