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what do you think of this invite wording?

cateydee Posted:

what do you think of this invite wording?

My parents (mom, dad and stepmom) are hosting. My mom wasnt so thrilled to hear that i wanted to put my stepmom on the invite but she is definitely involved in the wedding process. whats kinda weird is that my mom never changed her married name after the divorce, but sometimes uses her maiden plus married name.


Mrs. Mom Smith Jones
And
Mr. and Mrs. Dad Jones

Request the honor of your presence
At the marriage of their daughter

Caitlin Ann Jones
To
Anthony Martinez

On Thursday, the first of July
Two thousand and ten
At half past three
Church
address

GinaZ Posted:

Re: what do you think of this invite wording?

I think that wording is fine. y only suggestion is to add after your husbands name ' son of Mr. and Mrs. martinez (depending on the situation of course). But if his parents have friends and family attending, it is sometimes nice to include their names even though they are not hosting.

Lsorrent Posted:

Re: what do you think of this invite wording?


Posted by GinaZ

I think that wording is fine. y only suggestion is to add after your husbands name ' son of Mr. and Mrs. martinez (depending on the situation of course). But if his parents have friends and family attending, it is sometimes nice to include their names even though they are not hosting.



I agree. Especially if FIL's are helping out at all.......even in the tiniest bit, they should be on the invite.
soontobecruz Posted:

Re: what do you think of this invite wording?

My mom still has her married name also although she is single and my step mom is on there also. Mine read

Ms. Michele Verbiar &
Mr. & Mrs. Gerard Verbiar

request.... and the rest


For a single adul female you don't have Mrs. it's Ms.
This will differentiate her from your step mom too
cavvento Posted:

Re: what do you think of this invite wording?

How would your mom feel with going by Ms. Mom Smith Jones (instead of Mrs.). That's typically how it's worded if a woman is single. I think it would make the scenario clearer to the reader, but again your mom would have to be comfortable with this.

cateydee Posted:

Re: what do you think of this invite wording?


Posted by cavvento

How would your mom feel with going by Ms. Mom Smith Jones (instead of Mrs.). That's typically how it's worded if a woman is single. I think it would make the scenario clearer to the reader, but again your mom would have to be comfortable with this.




good question... i will ask...
FutureSMwifey Posted:

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Posted by GinaZ

I think that wording is fine. y only suggestion is to add after your husbands name ' son of Mr. and Mrs. martinez (depending on the situation of course). But if his parents have friends and family attending, it is sometimes nice to include their names even though they are not hosting.



ITA
debzy Posted:

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Your mom should be Ms. Mrs is reserved for married (or widowed) women.

DKaye09 Posted:

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Ms. Mom Smith Jones
and
Mr. and Mrs. Dad Jones

Seems to be the best wording for your situation. We were having a similar situation for our invites, and that was definitely one of the wordings we considered.
RPMG26599 Posted:

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I think the wording is perfect! Thats usual for a mother not to change her name after a divorce I think.....they want to have the same name as their children
asg450 Posted:

Re: what do you think of this invite wording?


Posted by GinaZ

I think that wording is fine. y only suggestion is to add after your husbands name ' son of Mr. and Mrs. martinez (depending on the situation of course). But if his parents have friends and family attending, it is sometimes nice to include their names even though they are not hosting.



I agree.

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