So my BFF, who got married this November, was explaining to me that everything is the same after the wedding between them and usually that's how it is. Well I feel the same, I don't think anything will change, we already pretty acting like a married couple and do/decide/live together. so i think the only thing that will change is that we going to start planning new things, other than the wedding - buying a house, having kids. Wedding for me is just a big party to feel like a star for a day. I asked FH the same, and he thinks that it will be better (he's is def the romantic in this relationship). he thinks that it will solidify us, nothing in his opinion will change between us, we will still fight laugh and argue over philosophical existential issues (ye we totally do that ), but we will be this official one unit.
So what do you guys think?
Rosalind_75
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I think things will change for us if we decide to have a child.
If we decide not to then I think things will be the same. We already have a house and have been living with each other for over 5 years.
MrsC2010
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we live together so i dont think anything will drastically change, but it will be different to be able to call each other husband and wife and it will feel like we are really a family.
MrsHandsome2Be
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i honestly think things will be the same or better
people tell us it will be different because we don't live together.. but we have been together going on 9 years.. we sleep together every night even tho we don't live together.. i do his laundry, pay his bills, cook for him, etc... i know all of his quirky habits.. so there won't be any major changes or surprises when we officially move in together.. i know him like the back of my hand! LOL
but i honestly think the best is yet to come!!
T E R I
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I don't think anything will really change, we already live together, have a house together, FH already calls me his wife so not sure what would change
christine2010
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we have been together for 9 years & living together for 3. we can barely remember a time when the other wasn't there. every decision that has ever been made has been a joint one. the only things that marriage will change for us are, being able to file taxes together, being able to have health insurance together & not getting so many questions about why each is the beneficiary of CD's, IRAs, etc.. marriage will also allow us to plan for permanent living situation (rather then our temp apt) & plan having kids.
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so I see that all of us feel the wedding is just a big awesome party as much as I await excitedly the wedding, I await more for what happens after. can't wait to see what in store next for the two of us
asg450
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We don't live together, so I think things will change. We we finally have complete privacy; we will be able to watch a movie or have dinner without someone popping into the room wanting to talk with us.
For him, he will be getting nice home cooked food. I love to cook and bake, so he will be well taken care of.
I think we will have to learn how to deal being around each other for more than a few hours. But we will adjust.
lissylissa
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i dont think much will change cause we already live together i have a daughter which he treats like his own so we already have the little family!!!! The only thing that will be different is we will start looking for a house after the wedding and also planning another child!!!!! My sil is always telling me once u get married EVERYTHING changes and not always in a good way and i truly despise when she tells me this cause i dont see much changing and i rly dont think things shld rly change much!!!
MarjorieFrank
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We don't live together, so after the wedding I know our money situation is going to change. We will JUST be getting by with the skin of our teeth, so we will be paupers.
Dean Bean
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Well we don't live together, but have been together for 7 years. So the living together aspect will definitely be a change, but we're actually moving in together about 3 or 4 mts. before the wedding. I look sooo forward to it!! I can't wait
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Posted by Dean Bean
Well we don't live together, but have been together for 7 years. So the living together aspect will definitely be a change, but we're actually moving in together about 3 or 4 mts. before the wedding. I look sooo forward to it!! I can't wait
I dont know about other girls, but for me and FH nothing changed and we moved in after only 2 months of dating. everything was the same only we came to the same place instead of coming over each others' house
stinenandy2010
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Nothing will change....we own a house together, have been living together for 2yrs...so nothing..at least until we have a baby
Lsorrent
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FH and I have been together for 9 years and living together for 2 1/2. We've also already bought our house. Not much will change except the formalities.
However, I KNOW things will change once we have children.
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I don't think anything will change unless we decide to add children to the mix - that could turn out to be a horror show for us!
depoc1011
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I cant wait for the changes!!! we do not live together and I can not wait too!!!! I know there will be adjusting but we are excited!!! Also the last 2 years we have not been together much bec of grad school, so it will be nice being together alot more than we already are now!!!! I just cant wait for it! I am aware i am a HUGE dork!
jlt2010
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not much will change for us because we already live together.. at least not until we buy our own house and *gasp.. have kids...
grkbarbie
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nothign will really change. we've been living together for a few yrs. i guess ill have to start saving my money and put it twds a bigger house .. life suxxx lmao jk
yea less trips to the mall.. more trips to the bank.
i think thats about it?
JenBill61210
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I don't think anything will really change, we already live together, have a house together, FH already calls me his wife so not sure what would change
funny my FH calls me his wife too.
we dont live together so that is def one thing that will change!
JAAMS
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We already live together, so I don't think anything will change.
I think things will change when we have kids though.
