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What do you usually give for a wedding gift??

Original post by mandag

An anonymous poll ladies! What is the average wedding gift?

bkposh Posted:

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Posted by cbcf

It depends.

Like Heather said I would give more to a close friend then a co-worker.

But if it is FH and I going to a wedding- he is very generous. I think it is the Romanian in him. His family is very very generous with giving $$. They gave us what I thought was a substantial amount of $ for a wedding present just for our e-party present. So I can just imagine what they will really give as our wedding gift- and I sort of feel bad



yes romanians are quite generous when it comes to weddings, christenings or occassions where a party is in order.....
Mici n KC Posted:

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Posted by futuremrsfab

whoever gives more than $200 a person please FM me- I have an invitation for you!



SoonToBeMrsBrady Posted:

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If anyone can't give more than $100...they should't go. What goes around comes around.

Bride908 Posted:

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honestly if it a co-worker or cousin...someone I am not that close with for a regular wedding I give 300. It is a really goodfriend or family member, the least I am giving is $500. I'll break the bank for people Im close to..

Bride908 Posted:

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also, some people assume that $100 is covering a plate and to be completly honest...thats not the case these days. I know its not covering mine

Kerin2804 Posted:

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Honestly it all depends on my finances Minimum of $100 per guest attending. If we can afford more than so be it
failurebydsign Posted:

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i try to figure out what they paid for plate

or it also depends on what they did for the wedding also

if a couple paid for the wedding themselves..id give more that if they didnt pay for anything

and it depends on your relationship to a person as well i guess

Dee0522 Posted:

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Posted by DNS91308

All depends on how close we are with them and what the couple on avg has given us or friends.

I dont really believe in giving based on what kind of venue they pick b/c i dont think i should pay for someone else extravagance but id like to think we are generous.



I agree... I don't give based on where the wedding is. If someone decides to pay $200/plate or more, I don't feel I am obligated to jack up my wedding gift to them... it's their choice to pay that much. That being said, I have def given more $$ to my good friends than to someone I'm not as close to. The last 2 weddings I was in, I gave $250 from FH and I. Most people can't afford much more than that!

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