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what have your bm done for you?

Original post by gabbie83

So far I have done everything by myself - ofcourse FH is helping me
& My mom is helping a lot as well - you know as far as my dress & opinions & all that
but I really dont know what my BM could have helped me with

Just wondering what your BM are helping you with
MrsD71208 Posted:

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So far it's just been FH and I !

nifheim Posted:

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They are going to my bach party and contributing but i planned it, they paid for nothing for the shower so other then the bach party nothing much but that is cool to me.

kBr Posted:

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uh, i havent really asked for anything from my bp. my mom planned my shower and threw it for me. i have no idea if any kind of bach party is in the works. my bp all have their own things going on and i understand that. would it have been cool if they did somethin without me asking? sure, but its ok.
bluegreen08 Posted:

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So far so good - minimal problems and a few have gone above and beyond my expectations.

Hope I'm not jinxing myself.
jessica08bride Posted:

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i think i have some time before i need any help but they have been offering a lot, asking me if i need anyhting. thats always nice. and we do get together every month to just chit chat...they usually want to talk wedding stuff while i dont hehe. i also use them to pass off ideas. FH agrees with anything so i cant trust him. hehe. ill ask them honestly if something is cheesy or not and i know they'll give me a straight up answer.

minibride08 Posted:

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My MOH (my cousin) has been great! She came dress shopping with me... went BM dress shopping with me (and so did a few of the other BM's), listen to me talk wedding ALL THE TIME and I know is organizing my shower (which is a surprise, but FH says she is working on it)... Most of my other BM's live out of state and have just been there for support... I know if I needed anything- they would all help but I really like doing a lot myself
Wifeynella Posted:

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they are big on giving opinions especially FSIL, but otherwise nothing. lol we arent really in the nitty gritty part yet so i dunno. we'll see.

heathermatt Posted:

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they have been there...There are like two who do nothing. I have 10..My MOH is def a sounding board...then they are just there to listen and ask what is going on. They helped with favor for engagment party and with the save the dates...

So....so far so good...
MeaganAndJoeC Posted:

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I have 9 girls.. they are all willing to help with anything I ask. Sometimes I just forget to ask. THey are all helping to plan my BS and BP. Im sure some more than others behind the scenes but I know my sisters ( maid and matron) are doiing a lot too...

my mom is also awesome with the wedding planning
angl2001 Posted:

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they have helped a good ammount...my MOH has done the most tho thank goodniess i have her!!!

but they have all been pretty helpful i have a pretty good group of girls!
lonal Posted:

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MOST of mine have been wonderful. They came with me to look for my dress and helped me pick out bridesmaids dresses. MOST of them call me weekly to see if they can help with anything and to see how everything is going. I will need there help closer to my big day and I know MOST of them will be there!

MrsK2008 Posted:

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my best friend who is BM and coordinator has been amazing, but that's it.

My sister has been a big pain in my arse, my fh best friend who is a BM is always TOO TIRED to go anywhere.

I never really expected much from anyone, also it's hard fo them because I hate surprises and I am so picky!

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