I am SOO scared things will go WRONG at the wedding... I AM SOO scared everythign will go wrong!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I cant stop crying!!!!
I think NO one will come to Church to see us get married... I think guest will arrive two hrs later at the RH I think I dont have enough money to add What I want to add I think my FMIL will give me more **** at the wedding I think I dont have enough time anymore to do thigs I think time is flying too muhc I think my BM will arrive late I think his GM will be late i think the FG & RG will be late....(and I DONT EVEN HAVE THEM) I think no one will come to my bridal shower I think we will only get like 3 great presetns and then like 2towels & forks n knifes... I think the wedding is TOO soon I think I will NEVER lost 10 pounds before the wedding...
OMG I AM FREAKIGN OUT AND CRYINGGGGGGGG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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V!!! Breathe lady! Everything will turn out BEAUTIFUL!!! No matter what, you are marrying Luis and you two will have a BEAUTIFUL day knowing you are forever promising yourself to him. No matter what else happens or who's late, you know he will be there at the end of the aisle waiting for you.
You have more than enough time to get things done - don't worry, and we're all here to help you! If you're really worried about that day, see if you can find it in your budget to get a day of coordinator - she will help to make sure you don't worry about a thing!!
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V..... first off Breathe!!! Everything is going to be amazing and perfect!!!!!! Its totally normal to freak out I think all brides do but you will have an amazing day and just remember you are marrying the love of your life and thats what matters most <3
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V!!! Breathe lady! Everything will turn out BEAUTIFUL!!! No matter what, you are marrying Luis and you two will have a BEAUTIFUL day knowing you are forever promising yourself to him. No matter what else happens or who's late, you know he will be there at the end of the aisle waiting for you.
You have more than enough time to get things done - don't worry, and we're all here to help you! If you're really worried about that day, see if you can find it in your budget to get a day of coordinator - she will help to make sure you don't worry about a thing!!
Ok Breathing... In & Out...... Yes I know I know... He is the only one who matters but i think im just freakin out...
OH I do have a Day of Coordinator, Laura Modern Day Affair.... Oh boy, I better tell her to bring anthing to calm me down bc i can be freaking out that day!!! Luis told me he wanted me to have a DOC bc he doesnt want me to freak up so hes paying for one....
thanks chica!...
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V..... first off Breathe!!! Everything is going to be amazing and perfect!!!!!! Its totally normal to freak out I think all brides do but you will have an amazing day and just remember you are marrying the love of your life and thats what matters most <3
Thanks Chica! I know... I am marrying Luis...
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Hun dont worry! Take a deep breathe....relax and think about the moment Luis proposed to you, and you looked into his eyes and saw the love of your life and the future you two are going to start.
All this wedding stuff, planning etc is great but its nothing compared to the true miracle and beauty that is going to happen and thats your marriage to Luis!!
We are both September brides so I know how you feel. The days feel like they are just rushing by and our list are getting bigger yet our pockets are getting smaller but trust in you and (trust in God) things will come together. Every once in a while, when I get really stressed out, a take a day or 2 to do separate myself from the wedding and do something NWR like go shopping for myself, buying jeans and shirts and things I like and not glasses and favors etc. And it gives me a chance to relax and just breathe. I talk to my FH, my family and my friends alot and get out all my frustration out!
Dont stress out my dear, everything will work out as planned and even if they dont, the most important thing at the end of everything is that you will be married to the love of your life and thats all that matters!!! and we will always be here for you!
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Hun dont worry! Take a deep breathe....relax and think about the moment Luis proposed to you, and you looked into his eyes and saw the love of your life and the future you two are going to start.
All this wedding stuff, planning etc is great but its nothing compared to the true miracle and beauty that is going to happen and thats your marriage to Luis!!
We are both September brides so I know how you feel. The days feel like they are just rushing by and our list are getting bigger yet our pockets are getting smaller but trust in you and (trust in God) things will come together. Every once in a while, when I get really stressed out, a take a day or 2 to do separate myself from the wedding and do something NWR like go shopping for myself, buying jeans and shirts and things I like and not glasses and favors etc. And it gives me a chance to relax and just breathe. I talk to my FH, my family and my friends alot and get out all my frustration out!
Dont stress out my dear, everything will work out as planned and even if they dont, the most important thing at the end of everything is that you will be married to the love of your life and thats all that matters!!! and we will always be here for you!
Awww chica thanks... Now I am crying remember when he proposed.... rememberin the great moment..
Yes... time is flying by... I am not getting OT at work like last year... I am getting litreally like $150-200 less biweekly for the past 6months! =-( (management change at work) I will try to see if I can take a Day to myself W/O freaking OUT!
I will trust God with everythign, i do trust Him... He is always there helping Us...
Thanks chica....
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Holy cow V calm down girl...you're freaking me out lol. There is no need to get yourself all worked up. Just focus on what you can control and forget about what you can't. Your wedding is going to be gorgeous. I passed Ariana today and thought of you chica!! Its going to be soooo pretty! Don't worry so much!
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Holy cow V calm down girl...you're freaking me out lol. There is no need to get yourself all worked up. Just focus on what you can control and forget about what you can't. Your wedding is going to be gorgeous. I passed Ariana today and thought of you chica!! Its going to be soooo pretty! Don't worry so much!
Sorry dont mean to scared u but i am fraking out... Ur rit, I am freaking out on the thigns I have NO control of... true....
Awww My ARIANA! I Love it!!!
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Seee now you are smiling again!! You are way to cool to let things like people being late freak you out sooo bad V!! You can't control them but if they do show up late they will be the ones feeling bad! Your shower will be fine, money will work out and everything will fall into place! No stress be happy and when you get freaked out think of your beautiful Ariana and having your first dance with your husband inside of it! That always calms me down and makes remember why I am doing all this crap in the first place LOL!
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Calm down!!!!!!!!
You can only control how you react to situations, not the situation itself!
You and FH will be there, and you will be beautiful! That is what is important
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Don't worry, it's normal to get nervous about these things!!! Not that any of it is going to happen, but worst case scenario ALL of those things went wrong.... you still get to marry your man and that's what's important! But trust me, NONE of that is going to happen!
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V!!! WHOA!! Calm down!!! It's alright! Everything will be fine. You have time before your wedding and you're probably all absorb in all this wedding planning! People will def be there at the church! People will show up to your shower and you will get gifts. People might be late, it happens but your BP will def be there for you and they won't be late! Don't worry!!!! Everything will work out!!!!
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Seee now you are smiling again!! You are way to cool to let things like people being late freak you out sooo bad V!! You can't control them but if they do show up late they will be the ones feeling bad! Your shower will be fine, money will work out and everything will fall into place! No stress be happy and when you get freaked out think of your beautiful Ariana and having your first dance with your husband inside of it! That always calms me down and makes remember why I am doing all this crap in the first place LOL!
Yes thank you chica! I will do so.. I will remember my Ariana and the First dance in the beautiful RH that Luis and I love
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Don't worry, it's normal to get nervous about these things!!! Not that any of it is going to happen, but worst case scenario ALL of those things went wrong.... you still get to marry your man and that's what's important! But trust me, NONE of that is going to happen!
Thansk Jilli... I think I am just freaking out and hope NONE of those things happen!.. Im just actin crazy perhaps.... Cant wait to marry Luis!
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V!!! WHOA!! Calm down!!! It's alright! Everything will be fine. You have time before your wedding and you're probably all absorb in all this wedding planning! People will def be there at the church! People will show up to your shower and you will get gifts. People might be late, it happens but your BP will def be there for you and they won't be late! Don't worry!!!! Everything will work out!!!!
Thanks Evita!!! I appreciate it!.. Sorry, i know it was a lot! But i was a Mess last night!!! I had puffy eyes for crying too much I know I cant control certain things... i wish i could lol... Thanks.
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aww, I think everyone goes through a breakdown as the day gets closer! For me it was when it hit 2011 and i had so many checks left. I FREAKKKED out but FH helped me put stuff in order by priority and then we just knocked them out one by one.
I completely understand about overtime as well. As I'm trying to lose weight and get wedding stuff done, I've been doing virtually NO overtime which then makes me stress out about money. But you know what, it will come together. You will have a gorgeous day. Just be mindful of what you spend and you'll be okay.
As for nobody being at the church - Marco and I'll be thereeeeee And I hate being late to anything
and the DOC will make sure that everything runs smoothly and you probably won't even notice is something DOES go wrong because they will be on it and fix it asap!
hope you are feeling a bit better now. It's okay to freak out once in a while but just turn that into something proactive and just make a list of stuff that you have to get done and start doing them one by one. You'll feel less stressed if you get them out of the way
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listen chica, cojelo con take it easy!!! If no one shows up to the church, I WILL BE THERE!, if no one goes to your shower, I WILL BE THERE! ( you better tell me if not im crashing, lol) if you still need a FG i told you I WOULD BE ONE! lol ... just cheer up chica! everything will be beautiful!! everything will work out! and at the end of the day, you will be marrying your prince charming!!!
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aww, I think everyone goes through a breakdown as the day gets closer! For me it was when it hit 2011 and i had so many checks left. I FREAKKKED out but FH helped me put stuff in order by priority and then we just knocked them out one by one.
I completely understand about overtime as well. As I'm trying to lose weight and get wedding stuff done, I've been doing virtually NO overtime which then makes me stress out about money. But you know what, it will come together. You will have a gorgeous day. Just be mindful of what you spend and you'll be okay.
As for nobody being at the church - Marco and I'll be thereeeeee And I hate being late to anything
and the DOC will make sure that everything runs smoothly and you probably won't even notice is something DOES go wrong because they will be on it and fix it asap!
hope you are feeling a bit better now. It's okay to freak out once in a while but just turn that into something proactive and just make a list of stuff that you have to get done and start doing them one by one. You'll feel less stressed if you get them out of the way
Awww Anney!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I know I will see u and Marc at the wedding! we shoudl eat pupusas at my wedding!
Yes, I know my DOC will help SOOO much that is why Luis said i needed to get it!... I should 'warn' Laura about me freaking out for everything... hope she doesnt gets scared!!!
Thank you Anney! Yes i will make a list of things I got to do... I should start by making a list with all of the things FH n I have to do in the weekend.
Sorry U had a breakout too God i felt as if I was carrying the world last night!!! So many things on top of me!! But feeling better now! Thanks Anney
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listen chica, cojelo con take it easy!!! If no one shows up to the church, I WILL BE THERE!, if no one goes to your shower, I WILL BE THERE! ( you better tell me if not im crashing, lol) if you still need a FG i told you I WOULD BE ONE! lol ... just cheer up chica! everything will be beautiful!! everything will work out! and at the end of the day, you will be marrying your prince charming!!!
Ok Chica! ' Lo Cojere al Suave'
Love ya girl!!!!!!! I told my Fiancee I have Someone who knows where ariana & my church is!!!! Tan linda chica! Gracias por ser asi
I can even picture dancing at my wedding eh?!!! Ahi bailando 'Dale mas gasolinaaaa!!!!! A ella le gusta la gasolinaaaaaaa' lol
I guess I just want everything to go perfect but I cant control evrything...
