OK so my BP are the most unorganized and the least communicated bunch of girls ever. My shower is not a surprise because nobody could make plans, they all kept asking me questions and frustrating me so my mom took over after I knew everything. Then my bachelorette party is being planned by ME and I still can't get them to help or give me their money to reserve the place. (We are having a dinner cruise on a huge paddleboat in our area, then barhopping) Now I find out that the BM dresses have been in for over a week and not one BM has gone to see if it is the right size, color or anything. I am just so frustrated right now, between 7 adult females I feel like I am referreeing(sp?) a high school team here!! Do they know that I have enough stress with all the other wedding planning I shouldn't be doing their 'jobs'? Sorry for the vent!!!!!!!!
RGV07
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dont worrry , i think you need to set them straight out !!!and tell them that you need their help in certain things or they will drive you crazy!
ErinC0119
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I totally understand!!! I have some BM's that are ridiculous too!!! Thank god for my sister and mom. I just recently had a discussion with my mom about the bahcelorette party cuz these girls are not responding to my mom or sister!!! heres some
SusiBtoM
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Have a litte sit down with them and let them know what is expected of them as being part of a bridal party. Then tell them to start acting like grown-ups.
AlmostKulak
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I have tried to tell them that they need to help with things and they all act like they didn't know that. I gave them all a paper with everyone's contact info and not one of them has talked to another about wedding planning except my sister and cousin who fought about things.
