What is wrong with people!?!??!

cw0904 Posted: Mar 11, 2003 02:10 PM

What is wrong with people!?!??!

I am annoyed with these lazy a$$ people that can't drop the stupid rsvp card in the mail. IT HAS A STAMP ON IT! Not like you have to go out of your way to buy one.

I have so much to do. I think my palm pilot needs more memory since I add more to do's into it every two minutes. The last thing I need to have on it is a note to self: mail out so and so's rsvp card! You would think these nit wits would think the same way!?!??!?

I see myself calling these fu**ers in 2 weeks!!

MarcellaBella Posted: Mar 11, 2003 02:11 PM

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LOL... after reading the subject line, i was like, you really want me to answer> lol

Bdmagee23 Posted: Mar 11, 2003 02:13 PM

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Take a few deep breaths and put down the knife!

:)

Everything will be ok.

cw0904 Posted: Mar 11, 2003 02:15 PM

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LMAO!! I needed that thanks!

michele31 Posted: Mar 11, 2003 02:15 PM

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Welcome to the Wonderful World of Wedding Planning.
This happens to every once of us. Not sure why, but people just don't think you NEED to know if they are coming or not.

berlykim22 Posted: Mar 11, 2003 02:20 PM

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I TOTALLY AGREE
its so annoying

what to hear really annoying
One of my Own bridesmaids didnt even send back are RSVP
Yes I know she is coming, but i did the whole number thing and its nice and organized
and DITTO to having a stamp
how hard is this

and she has been there
just annoying and irratating.

I decided the rest who I dont know if they are coming or not and havent heard any word
I am not worrying about NOT making placecard from them
unless I at least got some sort of verbal response.

I AM NOT MAKING ANYMORE CALLS
with only 11 days to go
enough is enough

shelzyp Posted: Mar 11, 2003 02:25 PM

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I can't wait til my invitations go out, I will be a lunatic if people don't have the common curtesey to respond!!!

cw0904 Posted: Mar 11, 2003 02:25 PM

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Michele I feel all of you married ladies pain. I would think Oh no not me, my guests wouldn't do that. BOY was I wrong! I just find it so inconsiderate...

Jen2704 Posted: Mar 11, 2003 03:01 PM

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How rude

If you have to call them up...I would be pretty ticked to say the least!!

I feel your pain on this one...I will have to go through that later in the year...your in my prayers on that one!!

Imagin916 Posted: Mar 11, 2003 03:54 PM

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I agree with all of you about people intentionally not dropping cards in the mail, but with this mail lately, it could have got lost. My mother, my sister and I all had seperate invites to a wedding we are going to, and I dropped the response cards in the SAME mailbox together, and my mothers never got there. When my friend called about my moms reply, she had gotten mine and my sisters but not hers. I was also expecting an important letter 3 weeks ago that never arrived (thank god the school kept a copy). Although most of the time people really do send them out late, give them a call anyway and make sure the invitation got there. Good luck!

cw0904 Posted: Mar 11, 2003 04:35 PM

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I totally agree the mail system has been extra weird lately. My payments sometimes take a week and a half to arrive to the vendors and other times its posted to my account in 4 days....
I won't be calling all the dummies. Fh's mom will take care of her side, my mom will take care of ours and I will take care of our friends. I can curse out my friends anytime.

charliesgirl Posted: Mar 11, 2003 04:39 PM

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I am still getting reply's. My RSVP date was Feb 14th.Thank goodness they are no's

Latina511 Posted: Mar 11, 2003 04:41 PM

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I think 7 invitations that I sent out did not get to certain people. When I called to verify they said they never received the invitation then I verified the address over and over again it was correct. Def be careful because the mail system is a little crazy.

This included my SIL, I sent out 3 invites to one househould at the same time. Two of the invites got there but hers didn't. She thought she was not invited she got into a huge fight the week before with my DH and he told her he didn't want her at the wedding. He really didn't mean it but when she didn't receive the invite she thought she was just not invited. I had to make a new one and send it out again. She never got the first invite I sent to her, completely lost.

dubliner Posted: Mar 11, 2003 04:42 PM

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I believe it - I'll know I'll be doing the same thing

Diane Posted: Mar 11, 2003 04:44 PM

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I Know how you feel. I felt the same way. Why is is so HARD Like all you have to do is put it back in the mailbox, yes/NO
I gave you the darn stamp.

But there are people out there who are lazy. Some will forget and send it last minute.
I received a lot of ones that came weeks after my RSVP date. You may have to make some phone calls.

What-Now Posted: Mar 11, 2003 04:46 PM

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My wedding is in 5 days and I still haven't received 10 rsvps. When I called people and asked they said: well, of course we are coming! Of course??? I didn't know it was that obviouse! I would have if they send in the **** rsvp! GRRRR!

NancyC Posted: Mar 11, 2003 04:49 PM

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I know this really gets me mad I still have a few more out there and who ever does not respond I am putting them down as NO....sorry but I have enough crap to do and worry about than calling all these idot's we so call family