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What is your FIANCE doing to help???

Original post by Bridex100

I have assigned invitations, slideshow, and transportation to him. I don't know if I trust him to do it though. I'll probably end up doing everything myself at the end.

Goldi1021 Posted:

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Posted by sarahradio5


Posted by Goldi1021

Mine showed up. That helped.



That will be mine... he really has no interest in planning this wedding, and I'm honestly getting frustrated and taking offense to it.



Oh mine had interest but you know what I mean...
MJDoc12 Posted:

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i assigned hotel blocking and DJ appointments to him. he did those solo. otherwise--we've done every single other aspect together.

BRod-Cheng Posted:

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My FH has been wonderful. He found our favors, and the special symbol we wanted for the stationary. He went to all of the appts, and did tons of research for the photographer, and videographer.

clarity Posted:

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he booked the hall & caterer. I think he does more than me actually.

Jennie0898 Posted:

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Posted by Goldi1021

Mine showed up. That helped.



Same here. He hasn't even asked anyone to be in his part of the bridal party!!!
JazzyT Posted:

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he picked the hall
Tuxes
ellebelle1 Posted:

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Nothing. But, I don't care. It's turning out quite well without his decision-making.

nygirl77 Posted:

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Mine is showing up the day of the wedding!! He's pretty useless in the wedding planning process otherwise.

MrsH1156 Posted:

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Ummmm....he's paying for our reception. It's better if I handle everything else. Less fighting that way.

MayBride06 Posted:

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writing the checks! That's it! (oh and his groomsmen gifts!)

MrsH1156 Posted:

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Posted by nygirl77

Mine is showing up the day of the wedding!! He's pretty useless in the wedding planning process otherwise.



Maybe our FH's are related because mine is EXACTLY that same way.
Graciep0o Posted:

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Mine is pretty useless as well...he was assigned the DJ, tuxes and transportation..

We FINALLY booked our DJ back in March after him promising me that he'd do it since NOVEMBER!! Tuxes and transportation are a no go..what a surprise..so I finally had to make some phone calls and send some emails today..

Though I will say, he has been pretty helpful when it comes to making difficult phone calls to vendors..he says I need to learn to be more confrontational...
sr081906 Posted:

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Posted by STBH

He is involved wit everything I do and I love it!



Same here!
Cheryl826 Posted:

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Staying out of my way
EJSD2006 Posted:

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FH looked up all the info for the HM and the limos...but the best thing he's done to help me is to stay out of my way! He knows when to ask questions and when to leave me alone!
itslaurie. Posted:

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it's our wedding, so the entire event has been a full collaboration.

oh, except he leaves all the endless hours spent on wedding related message boards 'for research' to me.
luvmyhuny Posted:

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MY FH only concern is HOW MUCH it Costs

chander618 Posted:

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Date, Hall and Tuxes the rest is up to me

rlgirl Posted:

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Posted by Jennie0898


Posted by Goldi1021

Mine showed up. That helped.



Same here. He hasn't even asked anyone to be in his part of the bridal party!!!



mine hasnt either!! he hasnt done a d*mn thing.
Summer101 Posted:

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He picked the band and the string trio and he is playing piano for the CD for favors- he is a musician so I gave him what he is good at to do believe me I had to keep reminding him to do these things

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