I have assigned invitations, slideshow, and transportation to him. I don't know if I trust him to do it though. I'll probably end up doing everything myself at the end.
i102bcute
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he took care of all the church stuff and he also helps me out with other things...it's kind of 60/40..lol
JayZee07
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Nothing!!!!!!!! But its okay because I am so narotic I would probably end up doing it my way anyway.
RadioLau
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My FI has helped with EVERYTHING except dresses. HE is extremely involved with every aspect of the wedding and we do everything concerning the wedding together.
angnick
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my FH keeps me calm... He is great at that.
But, he is also wrapping favors and helping with other misc. stuff.
nicothy
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he did everything with me except flowers. he came along and helped me with everything.
SuzBride
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He helped me stuff invites He tied bows on some of the fans He took me to AC Moore, but kind of whined about it
He is supposed to be on top of house stuff - but that isn't really getting done either. He works too much, so I have to do everything
FallBride05
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He helped with everything, wanted to be involved.
Of course I had final say
But seriously, he worked hard on the music and he picked the flowers for the centerpiece as well as the look of the centerpiece.
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Posted by Bridex100
I have assigned invitations, slideshow, and transportation to him. I don't know if I trust him to do it though. I'll probably end up doing everything myself at the end.
Oh if I had done that....it would've never gotten done. I assigned him the sole responsibility of our HM....and he procrastinated so badly that I ended up doing myself as well. So far he's been as helpful as a hole in a wall. But FMIL assures me that FFIL was the same way with their wedding...if that's any indication, then I plan on a happy life with my procrastinator...cause he's sure to be a sweet, well-thought out man. Awww.
BklynItaliana
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Fh has done everything with me except my dress, he's not allowed.
the little things i do the research and we decide together like organza bags for slipper basket, to the chocolate slippers.
ali120206
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He had limos, band, honeymoon and OOT blocks on his list to begin with.
He did the band on his own and for the limos, he did most of the research and stuff, I did all the contract stuff since I have a fax machine at work.
I booked the whole honeymoon and did the room blocks.
I told him last night it was more his wedding because he has more people coming. He asked how many and I answered 100. Then he went on about not having a say in things. I was slightly annoyed since I have included him in everything and either he didn't care or he gave me his opinion. I told him he could handle the rest then.
ntunison
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NOTHING! At first I was okay with him not wanting any part of the planning, but now as I get more involved i realize that I NEED help... It's so frustrating sometimes.
kittythestray
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He's paying for half - He knows I want the wedding exctly how I want it, so I may bounce ideas off him but he knows better than to get involved
Katie&Chris2006
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He and I went to book all of our vendors together....he is a wheeler and dealer, and I am not, so that worked out well. He also makes alot of the phone calls since I am not able to do that during the day. That is a big help.
Mine is a wheeler and dealer too, which is very helpful. But...he's also turned into a groomzilla! He cares about EVERYTHING!!!!! The bm dresses, the kind of paper and ribbons we use...everything! It is rather cute...but sometimes I wish I could just make a snap decision when needed.
DanaRenee
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Mine has done:
Honeymoon Limos Tuxes Dance Lessons Wedding bands (well, we did that together but it is his jeweler)
And thats all I want him to do! I love planning!!
LoveBug1124
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He was involved in everything in the begining and it was great! I think the excitment has truned into stress for him. We booked the hall together, flourist and DJ. Now I let him go play golf while I plan! When I make final decisions on Photography & Video I will make him come sign with me.
tonimike
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We went to the hall together, & the band together,,
My mom has been really helpfull, not that he dont want to , but she has been picking up things along the way,, he is a guy , whats he know .lOIL
