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What should I do?

kptoys Posted:

What should I do?

The weddings at noon
The reception is from 12:30-5:30
We are setting up a large tent in my moms back yard with alcohol and also having some food catered for afterwards
I will also be having a limo to take people between their hotel rooms and my moms so no one has to worry about drinking and driving

MY QUESTION IS:

Do I include the invite to my moms for the after party with the invitation for the wedding or do I hand them out at the reception?
allure Posted:

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I would include it
I think people will love this option of carrying on the party
Sounds like quit the Wedding
usuk2004 Posted:

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I guess I would vote for with the invites. People should probably know before hand so that they can make arrangements. Ie, if anyone wanted to attend the after-party, that might mean staying over night (especially if there's alcohol involved) so they might want to book a hotel in advance.

That's so nice of your mom--it's going to be so much fun! The party will go on and on!
cocoa Posted:

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i would include it. this way, people can plan and you can get a better idea of how much food you will need for the after party.

kptoys Posted:

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So you would put an extra RSVP in the envelope just for the afterparty? Same responce envelope but 2 RSVP's?

1017Bride Posted:

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I think with the wedding invitation. If you give them more notice, they will be more likely to come.
1017Bride Posted:

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That would work Kp!

usuk2004 Posted:

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Are your invites printed yet? Can you include a 'check this box if you plan to attend after-party' kind of thing? Are you inviting everyone to the after-party, or just a select few? You can ask people to call in RSVP's to your mom, or ask them to indicate on response card...

kptoys Posted:

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Sonicstef has designed my invites.

I am inviting everyone... I dont discriminate
ChristineC68 Posted:

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I would include an insert with the invitation to let everyone know about the after party.

It sounds like it will be a great time!
tourist Posted:

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I have a similar situation , but with a between party, instead of an after party.
Its not reserved yet, but we will probably run a bar tab in one of the rooms in the Milleridge Inn btwn the church & reception.

I was thinking of putting of putting it on the directions card if I make my own instead of ususing the provided ones. I guess you could put it on the reception card. I don't knoe what to do about RSVps thoguh. I think we might skip that ,since it doesn't really matter for us, but if you are having food, your mom will want to know.

If you are making a separate card, you could just put :
All are welcomed to continute the celebration with an after-hours party at
Mom (& dad, if its the case) Somebody's house
adress
Please indicate on the rsvp card if you'll be able to join us.






kptoys Posted:

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thanks for the idea!

kptoys Posted:

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shameless AM bump

PrincessRose Posted:

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I would print out a completely separate invitation.

kptoys Posted:

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Would you mail them all together?

AliKing Posted:

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I would put an insert with the invite. that way people can plan ahead.

kptoys Posted:

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thanks

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