What should I do??? Kind of long---Sorry

***Please don't quote I have to take it down later for lurkers***

My sister and I are still not talking so my MOH is planning my shower. The problem is I have not been able to talk to her or see her since May. We have had a few text message/ email conversations but she has been really busy or I had been really sick. Last night one of my BM said to me that my MOH is expecting them to pay A LOT for the shower (more than she can handle). I talked to two more BM today (who are from out of state) and they said they have no idea when it is.

Should I say something to my MOH??? I hate everyone being so miserable. I have no idea how to fix this and I think its harder because I am a control freak but I can't control this.

What do you girls think I should do???

TIA

Hmmm maybe ask your MOH if she is still going to be able to take charge of planning it, so that way if she isn't going to be able to, you can ask your BMs to do it.

Maybe put in there somewhere that if they need help w/ planning certain aspects of things that you would be willing to help- that way it doesn't sound like you're putting everything on them (although they should be planning it IMO)