My Jr. Bm is FH's daughter... Now I wanted a Jr. Gm to be my cousin whom is her exact age (8) an who absolutely adores and loves me (I am his favorite cousin). FH has a god son who is also 8 who is always over his house and is one of FH's daughter's best friends/cousin, he wants him to be the Jr. Gm. I don't want to tell him no because I know they are close and I am also close to him...but I can't break my cousins heart but I know I will if he sees other kids with me on my wedding day, and I know it would mean the world to my little cousin to be in it. And I really want my cousin to be part of my special day. What should I do??
FH's daughter also has a best friend who is like a second daughter to him and who I am also very close with. I could always have her be a second Jr. Bm but the thing is I kind of just wanted to have FH's daughter (my future stepdaughter) because I wanted her to have a special role in my wedding day.... I wanted this to be something special between me and FH's daughter... I was planning on the best friend to give out the programs or something like that....help please....
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july06bride
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cant you have two jr gms on the arm of one jr bm
Noiva06
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cant you have two jr gms on the arm of one jr bm
I could and I have thought about this but I wasn't sure since they are all so young...
july06bride
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it would be cute but you could also have the jr bm walk alone and the boys up front already with the other guys and then coming out they could walk in single file
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it would be cute but you could also have the jr bm walk alone and the boys up front already with the other guys and then coming out they could walk in single file
I think this would be adorable!
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cant you have two jr gms on the arm of one jr bm
This is what I would do. It would be cute!! And she'd prob feel really special having 2 escorts!!
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cant you have two jr gms on the arm of one jr bm
This is what I would do. It would be cute!! And she'd prob feel really special having 2 escorts!!
I agree with this A- she would feel like a little princess...I mean, she will have more cute boys around her than the bride herself!
I don't think you have to take on the extra expense of another girl to have the two boys. I am the opposite, I have 2 jr. bridesmaids but no jr. groomsman. they are going to walk up together I think.
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I would have the two jr GM's and just one Jr. BM. This way FH's daughter will still feel special. I'm having to RB's and one FG because I have two nephews who are really close in age and although I'm closer to the one who is my godson I felt like the other one would be insulted and I didn't want to do that.
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get the 2 jr gm and let them walk down jr bm that will like fine!
Beth1210
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I love the idea of 2 boys and one girl!
EmberLynn
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I don't see any reason why you can't use them both.
DUCKS2001
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see your problem is solved.
Magicgrl21
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I think you should have 2 jr gm. It would be so freakin cute!! HEHE how lucky will the little girl be!! :)
