What should we do? (long)
FH's family has decided to turn our wedding into a family reunion of sorts, which is wonderful! I haven't met most of them as they ALL live out of state or out of the country. The result is that FH couldn't invite as many friends. He did invite those he felt closest too (about 6 or 7 with their dates).
Well, his bachelor party is coming up and his BM and groomsman invited everyone invited to the wedding plus a couple other friends that we weren't able to invite to the wedding, those FH wasn't as close to. One of the guys not invited to the wedding is now coming up from VA for the bachelor party. FH's GM told him that he may not have been invited to the wedding and explained why. The friend say he may not have been able to make it to the wedding anyway.
Now, here I am 5 days away from the response date on the invites and thinking that maybe we should have invited the VA friend. He is such a nice guy too! FH doesn't keep contact with him, so it's not like he can just call him up in regular conversation and discuss it. Our numbers don't really leave room for more guests, but what is one to do?
I guess FH can just speak to him at the bachelor party and fill him in. I know the friend would understand.
Well, his bachelor party is coming up and his BM and groomsman invited everyone invited to the wedding plus a couple other friends that we weren't able to invite to the wedding, those FH wasn't as close to. One of the guys not invited to the wedding is now coming up from VA for the bachelor party. FH's GM told him that he may not have been invited to the wedding and explained why. The friend say he may not have been able to make it to the wedding anyway.
Now, here I am 5 days away from the response date on the invites and thinking that maybe we should have invited the VA friend. He is such a nice guy too! FH doesn't keep contact with him, so it's not like he can just call him up in regular conversation and discuss it. Our numbers don't really leave room for more guests, but what is one to do?
I guess FH can just speak to him at the bachelor party and fill him in. I know the friend would understand.
