Its hard to say bc not everybody has to bring the same stuff, all depends on what you are doing. You might do things some others aren't and vice versa
what i brought, from what i can remember
Menu's(well DOC brought them to RH since she made them) placecards table numbers with picture frames favors table runners that i made cardbox toasting flutes cake and knife serving set Enlargement
hmmm i think thats all
other stuff like candles for example my florist supplied, and cake topper my cake person brought to the RH.