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what to do.... shower invite? long.....

FutureCap Posted:

what to do.... shower invite? long.....

ok so i worked closely with girl 1 and girl 2 for a year, then i moved to a diff building. G1 was getting married a year after. i used to work with he man years before and hooked up with man's friend (who i also worked with). friend was about to propose to another girl and told me within 2 months he wanted to marry me and woudn't do it if I would marry him. I said NOOOOO. the girl he ended up marrying found out and hated me (i guess i could understand that, and i don't really care, i have not reason to see either of them).

so now when G1 was getting married her and her man were worried about inviting me to the weddnd cause they thought it might cause trouble b/c friend was a GM and wife would be there. 2 weeks before the wedding she sent me an invitation, i felt like an after thought, but kinda knew the deal, we had 5 weddings in 2 monhts, so we didn't go.

i want to invite G2 to shower, but they kind of go together. I have no problem inviting G2, but i don't know if I should do both, one or none. I was not invited to G1's shower, but was invited to her bach party.

what would you do???
soontobecruz Posted:

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I think if you are inviting them both to the bach party they should both be invited to the shower

little j Posted:

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invite both. G1 can always RSVP no

runnerbride1023 Posted:

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I'm kind of confused.... but I agree, invite both and then let them decide if they come...

2BMrsB Posted:

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only invite who you really want there! These days are about you, and if you think that having the one girl there will bother you, then dont invite her....

FutureCap Posted:

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Posted by RAK220

I'm kind of confused.... but I agree, invite both and then let them decide if they come...



haha, it was not the easiest situation to explain, it even confuses me
JAAMS Posted:

Re: what to do.... shower invite? long.....

I'd just invite Girl 2, for the shower I didn't go with the whole I invited this one so I HAVE to invite that one. I only invited the people that I'm closest with.

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