What was the moment...

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Posted by Future Mulligan

hmmmm.....we met in july i think, by august we were hanging out a lot, then i think in september he went away on a vacation with his g/f at the time and his friend and then a little bit after he got back from that he broke up with her - so although we hung out almost all the time and i really was into him i was kind of iffy because he still had a girlfriend and i was still talking to my ex (who was a stalker ) and i was also hanging out alot with someone else trying to see if that would go anywhere - but while all this was going on my FH and i were hanging out a lot, like almost every day - and we both were really drawn to eachother - you have to keep in mind that we were 18 and 21 at the time so we really didnt care who we were hurting in the process because we both were not happy with the people we were with (my FH had a g/f from high school that by this time he was bored with, he used to cheat on her but he felt to bad to break it off with her - he was kind of waiting for something better to come along - which isnt nice but i understood because i was pretty much in the same boat doing the same thing with the ex and other guy i was talking to, you know kind of stringing them along - so it wasnt nice of us i guess but i mean neither one of us really took those relationships too seriously) but anyway i had really strong feelings for my FH from the start and he did for me as well - well in may, about 9 months after we met my FH was in a motorcycle accident - and even though we both had said i love you to eachother before that - it wasnt until that day that i really knew exactly how much i loved him - and i think it was the same for him - when i got to the ER and finally saw him he just cried and said all he could think about was me, and what if i was riding with him and something happened to me - and all i could think about was what if something had happened to him - it was very emotional for both of us - and for his family too - luckily he was just scraped up and broke some ribs but it was still scary - after that he promised me he would never ride again....after that day i really felt that he was the one for me because i couldnt picture my life without him, i knew that the feelings i had for him were different than the love i had thought i had for other guys before him....omg sorry for the longest post ever - i dont know whats up with me these days with long posts - killing time at work i guess

ETS: i loved him right away - but the motorcycle accident is what confirmed it for me - and stands out in my mind as a turning point in our relationship, where i knew that this wasnt just lust, or puppy love, but that it was something more than that - something that really could be forever

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very cute!

I don't think I had an 'exact' moment. We were crazy about each other from the second we met!! I think it was love at first sight, seriously!

He maintains to this day that the moment he 'knew' was about 3 weeks after we met- we were grabbing pizza for lunch and I asked for a side of bleu cheese for my pizza. He said he knew I was the girl for them then!

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Posted by melcc83

kind of weird but 3 months after we started dating i broke up with him b/c i was stupid haha and had feeling for an ex. welll 2 days later i was soo miserable with out him and relized how wonderful he was and i was so afraid of getting hurt again i didnt want to see what was infront of me. It was at that point i knew i was inlove with him I told myself if he took my back(of course he did im a hot biatch lol) i would finally give him my whole heart!!

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omg! someone who has such a similar story as mine! i thought my situation was weird too glad to know im not the only one

lol thats awesome!!! i agree i never met anyone with a story like that.....i allmost didnt post it, glad i did!!!

we were driving to AC around midnight on my 21st birthday. we were on the AC expressway. I said I was cold and FH pulled the car over, went to the trunk, and brought back a blanket. he opened my door and covered me. i think you had to be there.

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

Its not in the least bit romantic, but when I took a break from FH and was seeing another guy... And still thinkin about FH and even called him on the DL while I was with the other guy... I knew then that I couldnt be without him...

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Keepin' it real girl!!

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by melcc83

kind of weird but 3 months after we started dating i broke up with him b/c i was stupid haha and had feeling for an ex. welll 2 days later i was soo miserable with out him and relized how wonderful he was and i was so afraid of getting hurt again i didnt want to see what was infront of me. It was at that point i knew i was inlove with him I told myself if he took my back(of course he did im a hot biatch lol) i would finally give him my whole heart!!

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omg! someone who has such a similar story as mine! i thought my situation was weird too glad to know im not the only one

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Nope you are not alone. Even though in our situation it was def. love at first sight, I dont think we understood what 'real love' was. from the first moment we kissed we knew that we were in for a hell of a ride. Anyway, I ended up dumping his *** the day after thanksgiving in 2006 b.c I wasnt sure he was the man I should marry. We both dated other people. I went out with some older hot guys, some rich guys and he went out w. some hot *****. (Can you tell it's still a sore spot???)

Anyway, he begged and begged me to come back to him. He did the whole stalker thing and wouldnt stop calling me or sending me emails. Im a pretty good hard a s s over the phone, so I kept telling him to go die somewhere and leave me alone.
he even sent me roses at work. I didnt care. It wasn't until he actually came to my job to drop off roses for me and I happened to see him.

The minute I laid eyes on him again...my heart melted and I ****** his face off in front of the whole school. lol. (completely innapropriate I know)

It took 2 months for me to give in. We both thought it was def. over but in reality our relationship had just begun.
**Thats when we knew that we were doomed to spend the rest of our lives together.

>>> I swear it's not as bad as it sounds <<<

It sounds nuts but after our first date I came home and told my mom, 'Im going to marry him.' I just had that feeling! Two weeks into it we both kinda just brought it up that we felt love and he told me he fell in love with me...
Suffice it to say...about 4 months later we broke up and had a terrible breakup at that...he said some aweful things to me to purposly hurt me. At this time my mom threw it back in my face, ' oh I thought he was the guy you were going to marry' blah blah blah!

Then about 4 months after that he tried to become friends with me but I ignored his attempts and two months after that he got me at a weak moment on my quater-life crisis bday and I gave him a chance to apologize. He groveled and it took a little time but we fell in love all over again...
Love is def about the chemistry between people, but I also think that it has a lot to do with timing!

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Posted by redvelvet

when answered 'yes' to my son who had just called him 'Daddy'. now he's our son. it was right then i knew how big his heart was and how generous and loving he is. it makes me tear up to this day.

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That is amazing! He sounds like a great guy...