what would u do if...

MarchBride2012 Posted: May 30, 2011 10:04 PM

what would u do if...

.. you found the BM dress you love and everyone likes it but one girll??

Jmrosa1 Posted: May 30, 2011 10:06 PM

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It's hard to find one that everyonnnnneeeeee will love. Everyone is different and likes different things. In this case majority rules, and she has to suck it up.

SoontobeMrsH Posted: May 30, 2011 10:06 PM

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It's your wedding, get the dresses you want

Irishbride16 Posted: May 30, 2011 10:08 PM

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To tell you the trust ..its your wedding for one and she should wear what ever you pick out...tell her to suck it up and its only for one night....i been in alot of wedding and if the bride like a dress all of us said okay and like it ...just the right thing to do...i would just tell her everyone likes it and that..that

kdm822 Posted: May 30, 2011 10:12 PM

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I don't think i could tell someone i didn't like what they picked. I don't even think my cousin asked me if i liked hers lol.. I just wore it and kept my mouth shut. My sisters keep telling me they'll wear w.e i tell them to but i want them to pick out what they like once i pick a designer

i saw just buy it

SEB102707 Posted: May 30, 2011 10:16 PM

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I would have to go with majority rules!

There are some brides who don't even ask the opinions of their bridesmaids!!

MrsJPH2012 Posted: May 30, 2011 10:30 PM

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I agree with everyone else for the most part... My MOH has a different body type then the other girls and so its more difficult to find dresses that she likes and looks good on her. If all the other girls loved a dress but she didn't like it I wouldnt' take it because thats important to me. However if one of my other BM's had an issue, I wouldn't change it. Although, I don't think any of my girls would ever tell me they didn't like it unless something was horribly wrong with it!

MarchBride2012 Posted: May 30, 2011 11:37 PM

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Well this is kind of the situation.. she is a bigger girl, as are most of my bm. She said she doesnt think the dress will be flattering on most of the body types. None of the other girls really had an issue or much to say. I tried to explain tha its a drop waist and should look good on all shapes and sizes ..

CroatianBride Posted: May 31, 2011 08:50 AM

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Honestly I'm still a little upset we didn't go with the first dress we picked out...two of the girls were absolutely against them so I gave in. The second dress I found that most girls loved I put my foot down on

bride2be2012 Posted: May 31, 2011 09:16 AM

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it's your day and if you love it, your BM should be able to deal for one day

AlexandMike2012 Posted: May 31, 2011 09:19 AM

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Posted by SoontobeMrsH

It's your wedding, get the dresses you want

this!

justnicethings Posted: May 31, 2011 09:30 AM

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Boo! that stinks.
I had originally picked a dress because i was so stressed and confused and realized I HATED it shortly after. Nobody said a THING to me, but after I realized I hated it, a few really politely told me that they're glad I decided against it. They didn't say anything before that, and that's how it should be. Don't stress over what 1 girl says. If continues to be difficult, then she shouldn't be a BM.

CaughtMyFish Posted: May 31, 2011 09:40 AM

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Majority rules! Unless you are causing that one BM to look like a stuffed sausage, I say the majority gets to decide.

rosatemp Posted: May 31, 2011 11:40 AM

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Posted by SEB102707

I would have to go with majority rules!

There are some brides who don't even ask the opinions of their bridesmaids!!

exactly!

ive been in weddings where i had no choice to get the ugly dresses

SummerBride10 Posted: May 31, 2011 11:50 AM

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You'll never please everyone- get what YOU want!

AngnShaun Posted: May 31, 2011 11:52 AM

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tell her that sucks... and move on... its not her decision...

AngnShaun Posted: May 31, 2011 11:54 AM

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Posted by SEB102707

I would have to go with majority rules!

There are some brides who don't even ask the opinions of their bridesmaids!!

definitely... i was one of those brides...

pjc92980 Posted: May 31, 2011 12:33 PM

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you wont find a dress that everyone likes - so you either give them the freedom to pick what they want and not match or you pick what you want and they deal with it...

ourwedding9510 Posted: May 31, 2011 12:49 PM

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I would still get the dress. If you like the dress then that's what is important. If all BMs like the dress but 1 then that's AMAZING! She agreed to be in your bridal party and she just has to suck it up. Maybe she's just self concious in the dress and when it's her size, she'll like it more.

irisheyezrsmilen Posted: May 31, 2011 03:47 PM

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Posted by CaughtMyFish

Majority rules! Unless you are causing that one BM to look like a stuffed sausage, I say the majority gets to decide.

this!

chances are there is always going to be one girl who isnt thrilled with the dresses that is chosen. shes gotta get over it. i agree unless you are making someone put on a dress that is going to be horrible and make her uncomfortable then shes got no reason to be picky. not to sound like a bridezilla but its your day and your vision, and as a BM you have to know there is a chance you may not like the dress. but you suck it up cause your a good friend