What would you do

zaley Posted: Jul 23, 2004 08:21 AM

What would you do

One of my bm who is a very very selfish person is not comming to my shower
The thing is my MOH changed the date of the shower 4 times because they were no good for her
Well the other day she called my MOH to tell her that she can not come because it was her aunts wedding
The thing is she told one of my other BM that she needed to find out when the shower was because she had bought tickets for tour
The tour is the same date as my shower
So I am almost possitive that she is going to a concret instead of my shower
Also she is in her aunts wedding party and she did not know the date until the other day
she says
When she told me that she was not comming she said that she can not tell me why because I would now when the shower was if she told me
What would you do
I don't want to fight with her but if I find out she went to the concert I don't know if I will want her in the BP

lorsin Posted: Jul 23, 2004 08:48 AM

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I'd probably have a talk with her after the shower and see what the real deal is before making a decision.

aimerliny Posted: Jul 23, 2004 11:50 AM

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I agree. But if I were you, I'd be annoyed too.

Good luck!

james'pokey Posted: Jul 23, 2004 11:53 AM

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I am so sorry. That is not very nice. You should wait until after your shower (so you can enjoy it) and find out what the deal is. Good Luck!

jw11897 Posted: Jul 23, 2004 11:53 AM

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I would be really annoyed and hurt and would probably have a talk w/ her after the shower.

HearzBellz Posted: Jul 23, 2004 11:53 AM

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Posted by lorsin

I'd probably have a talk with her after the shower and see what the real deal is before making a decision.

ditto

JimmysBride Posted: Jul 23, 2004 11:55 AM

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I know exactly how you feel. I am also finding out who my real friends are now that it's nearing the wedding day. My philosphy now is -- if she doesn't WANT to be at your shower, do you really want her there? I'm sorry you are going through this. I'm going to through something similar and while you might feel like kicking her out of the BP, that's just asking for more stress in YOUR life. Just leave it be and deal with her after the wedding. That's what I'm going to do.

Kriss2c Posted: Jul 23, 2004 11:57 AM

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Posted by lorsin

I'd probably have a talk with her after the shower and see what the real deal is before making a decision.

I agree.

zaley Posted: Jul 23, 2004 11:57 AM

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Well my MOH called her today to tell her how much money for the shower and she says why would I give money for the shower I am not coming
Also this is not the first thing she has pulled
I am sooo mad right now

bogiedmb41 Posted: Jul 23, 2004 12:16 PM

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You have much more patience then me, I would have went off the handle, but I have a short fuse so don't mind me ...I think you should definitely have a talk with her and she if she really wants to be a part of your BP...I hope it all works out for you