What would you do?

Ok... I am invited my step father's sisters and brothers (and of course their husbands/wives). But I'm not inviting their kids. I hardly even know or see the step aunts and uncle's, let alone their kids.

Well, my mom went to a family event at my step aunts house. And her daughter, who is 25 (and not invited) told my mom she can't wait for the wedding. I have seen her 3x in my life- it's bad enough that I have to invite the step aunts and uncle's (out of respect for my mom and stepdad) but what do I do if she thinks she can come and shows up? How do you go about telling someone that they aren't invited? I am in shock that she even thought she was but she's not all there- there's a screw missing.

I don't even know the girl's number. l I can't even tell you her last name or where she even lives lol

I can just picture sending her mom the invitation and getting back a rsvp card with my step aunt and uncle's rsvp and a little note that her daughter and boyfriend will be attending too. I'm going to have to make my mom do the dirty work with this one- she is not invited. I don't even know her lol

I still can't believe she even assumed she might be invited. lol

i would just send out the invites to the people you are inviting.
if she doesn't get an invite she should get the hint.
if there is drama afterwards just explain that your FH's family is large and you had to limit your guest list b/c of it.

i hate when people assume they are invited.

Can you go through your mom and have her tell her that there isn't enough room to invite that many people?