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What would you do....................

meli722 Posted:

What would you do....................

What would you do if you found out FH was having a relationship with another woman for a month, and slept with her 2 times????

this is happening to someone i know, but theyre married
me personally FH would be OUT the door. just because im the type of person that forgives but doesnt forget, so id be miserable thinking he is always doing something, even if hes showing me hes a saint....itll ALWAYS be in the back of my mind!
Im a Pepper Posted:

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I'd have to leave him, no questions asked, and nothing to talk about. I'm not secure enough to stay with someone who's cheated on me.

ETA: I'm so sorry to the girl who is going through it. She must be so devastated!
MaggieLuvsJoe Posted:

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I would end things instantly.

I feel bad for the girl who is dealing with this, it's heartbreaking when the person you love lies and cheats
meli722 Posted:

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Posted by Future Pepper

I'd have to leave him, no questions asked, and nothing to talk about. I'm not secure enough to stay with someone who's cheated on me.

ETA: I'm so sorry to the girl who is going through it. She must be so devastated!




i know, its sad, they have a kid too
Im a Pepper Posted:

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Posted by meli722

i know, its sad, they have a kid too



Oh no! That's a whole different story! I can't believe a whole family is possibly going to be torn apart because of cheating. She must be so confused! Does she have any idea what she wants to do from here??
meli722 Posted:

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Posted by Future Pepper


Posted by meli722

i know, its sad, they have a kid too



Oh no! That's a whole different story! I can't believe a whole family is possibly going to be torn apart because of cheating. She must be so confused! Does she have any idea what she wants to do from here??



he was crying, so so far she hasnt kicked him out FH's clothes would have been out my window lol....and i face a nice grassy and dirt area, perfect spot
i dunno, i have a kid too, but i just couldnt stay....id be tooooo miserable
flairforfashion Posted:

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I would have thrown his a$$ out so fast!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That's such a horrible situation. I could never imagine being in that situation. I feel bad for your friend.
Future Mrs Roo Posted:

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IDK its very easy for us to say, its over and he's out but they are married and have a child. its a tough situation. How long have they been married? Does she want to leave him?
Lisa909 Posted:

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I'd be done with him

meli722 Posted:

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Posted by Future Mrs Roo

IDK its very easy for us to say, its over and he's out but they are married and have a child. its a tough situation. How long have they been married? Does she want to leave him?



i think 2 years, not sure, i guess shes in shock! i know we'd have to be in the shoes to make that decision, i would be devastated though i feel so bad
Future Mrs Roo Posted:

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they are pratically newlyweds. I feel so bad for her.

Brendanzgirl Posted:

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AHHHHHH I would not know what to do!
At first i would want to say 'See ya' but that is so hard once you're married already!

I'm so sorry to hear about your friend!
She'll be in our prayers
SalsBRIDE Posted:

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Married or not, he's out! I would not be able to forgive him.

I feel terrible for the girl you know, but she's prob better off without him then.
jenniferd Posted:

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Grrrr...Not smart. He'd have to leave, I couldn't trust him anymore.

Lisa218 Posted:

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I wouldn't be able to stay with him... that' just me. I have no tolerance for that.

LegoBride Posted:

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Adios amigo - FH and I were both cheated on in previous relationships so we know what it feels like plus we are meant to be. If you truly love someone there would never be reason to cheat. I don't even look at other guys

Jflod710 Posted:

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Pack up my things and leave him.

MrsBtobe2009 Posted:

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FH would definitely be gone!! I have no tolerance for that nonsense. I have been in that situation twice before (not engaged to either of them), and they were both out the door. I would never be able to trust that person again.

Summertimegal424 Posted:

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i'd tell him peace the F8ck out!

tammi2308 Posted:

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Unfortunately, when trust is broken in a relationship, it's almost impossible to get back and to always be thinkng about what he is doing when he's not with you is no way to live....I feel sad to hear this has happened to your friend. ...

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