Sooo my MOH applied for a transfer in San Diego for her job and she got it!!! We are sooo excited for her beyond excited .. she is sooooo happy and its an amazing opportunity for her:) The only prob is she leaves June 1st.. and will prob be there for 2 years.. so ofcourse we are sad that its so far and will be for a long time.. the timing def stinks with the wedding and all so thats the only downside of it.. But, she called me the other day to tell me she will only be able to come to either the bach party or the shower.. I totally understand money wise its expensive to travel home so I told her do what she feels is more important but she wanted me to decide.. I told her I would rather her at the bach party cause its a weekend away with the girls and its more fun.. But is that selfish of me to want her at the bach party and not the shower where she can see her family???? Need help.. what do you think is more important?tia:)
Jenna_and_John
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Bachelorette, I agree. I'm sorry sweetie!!
SoontobeMrs.Brown
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I think if she wanted to see her family she would have decided ... I think shes giving you the choice because shes being a good friend and wants to know whats more important to you ... Id go with Bach party since its a whole weekend. You'll get more time with her.
Soon2BNavi
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if it was me honestly I would want her to come to the bach party too. Like you said it will most likely be more fun - a weekend away with the girls. I don't think you are being selfish at all.
FutureCap
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i think i would say bach too... and she can still see her family, if she is gonna be here than i am sure she can adjust the number of days she is here to see them too!
little j
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i agree!!! one of my OOT friends could only come for shower, and i wish it were the reverse
but it was also a money/timing thing
so if she can afford the wknd away, tell her bach. if its hard, then shower.
ourwedding9510
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I would say Bach Party too. If she really wanted to come home and see her family she would have made her own decision. I'm sorry you have to go through this though but that's AWESOME for her and you're a good friend for understanding.
